In many discussions on dating and relationships, a lot of blame and finger pointing is aimed at men. While I’m not saying they don’t carry a good deal of the problems, it’s also important to take a look at ourselves, especially if we tend to attract the same kinds of toxic relationships or unhealthy patterns. On today’s episode of The Flow Era, I’ll be spilling the tea on my most viral instagram post “Signs You May Be the Red Flag” and going deeper into every point listed, while also sharing some lessons I’ve learned from them too! Even if a few of these are hard to hear, listen in to learn more about: • Anxious attachment style and giving men the time and space that they might need.  • Becoming mindful of being heavily in your masculine energy when it comes to over analyzing every single behavior while dating. • What it might look like to have no life outside of the relationship.  • Jealousy through social media watching. • How putting your man on a pedestal actually lowers your standards and self worth. Some people are fine with being the red flag in the relationship, but taking a moment to learn your value and heal from past hurts can really transform your relationships for the better! I hope a few of these resonated with you! Let’s keep the conversation going on Instagram! Remember, you are a woman in her Flow Era! Mentioned: Inner Child Meditation Here Ready to activate your inner goddess? Grab my FREE Feminine Energy Checklist here! Links For You: Website - Home - The Soft Nest Instagram - @flowerapodcast Instagram - @chikauwazie TikTok - chikauwazie