Here is a sneak preview of some ideas I explore in the book I am writing on narcissism. I finally found an angle I think is relevant and would love to hear what you think. I list the 11 mistakes below. And if you'd like to accelerate your healing process, why not see if the Healing After Narcissists course might be helpful? It comes with a money back guarantee: https://healingafternarcissists.ribersson.com The mistakes are: 1. Wanting to diagnose 2. Wanting to understand 3. Wanting to fix them 4. Wanting to not see the obvious 5. Wanting to believe it's our fault, i.e. it's fixable and it's something we did 6. Wanting to always learn more (become obsessed) 7. Wanting to not let go 8. Wanting to believe someone has the answers 9. Wanting a simplistic answer (worldview) 10. Wanting to be validated 11. Wanting a distraction