You want to build a great life, not just a job. People say work is a drudgery, but if work is a drudge, you’ve already lost. Work is defined as an activity involving mental or physical effort done in order to achieve a purpose or a result. Work is only a drudge if you have no purpose. Does your spouse know why you go to work every day? If you’re on the accelerator and your spouse is on the brakes, the marriage is going to get wrecked. You must answer together: 1. Why do you work together as a team? 2. What are your goals? 3. Are you working together or against each other? If you have love you can create anything with anyone, but first you must communicate clearly or you will be on two different pages.