Episodes
Isn’t it weird to travel with people you’ve never met? Tsh thought so, too, until she started leading pilgrimages. Now it’s one of her favorite things she does. She chats with her friend Bond Strong, who went on Tsh’s 2022 pilgrimage to Italy. They talk about why travel makes them love their home even more, how their love for travel only grew once they became parents, what they loved most about their time in Italy, and why you — yes, YOU — should go on Tsh’s 2023 pilgrimage to Ireland....
Published 03/03/23
Aren’t old books too hard for kids to understand? Maybe. Or maybe not. Tsh chats with her new friend Noah Tyler about his challenge of reading aloud from the original Harvard Classics set (also known as “Dr. Eliot’s Five-Foot Shelf of Books”). They talk about how books have the proclivity to form our minds and hearts, what it looks like to homeschool in an urban setting, and how any parent can shape their home environment in small ways to help the family better order their loves. (Seth will...
Published 02/24/23
You always remember your first. ...Get your mind out of the gutter, we're talking about first BOOK loves — you know, the stories that captured us and wouldn't let us go. In this episode, Seth and Tsh talk about the books that first drew them to the magic of good storytelling and word-weaving — beyond childish trinket stories, these were the books that first taught them the sacramental beauty of telling a story well. What about you? What were your first story loves? They go beyond books...
Published 02/10/23
Lex orandi lex credendi lex vivendi. What does this old Latin phrase mean? And what does it have to do with actual life? Lots, actually. These words represent an idea that’s not only time-tested, but it affects more of your life than you think. Seth and Tsh unpack why this concept matters, and what it has to do with topics like faith, education, work, and more. (In fact, you’ll hear more about this idea in upcoming episodes this season!) * Seth: Newsletter | Website * Tsh: Newsletter |...
Published 01/27/23
The new year kicks off with Seth in bed with the flu, so even though he musters up the strength to chat, in this episode it's mostly Tsh. Last year they each gave themselves a six-month challenge, so she shares her plan for this year: ten challenges in ten months! Why? How? And what are they? Tsh gets into all that with Seth.  Seth: Newsletter | Website Tsh: Newsletter | Website Pick up a round of drinks Our recommended reads Join Tsh in Ireland! Big Thief's new album, Dragon New Mountain I...
Published 01/13/23
Seth and Tsh are offline for the next couple of weeks, but the show will pick back up in January. In the meantime, they've got a few thoughts for you — by way of other people's thoughts. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Seth's newsletter + website Tsh's newsletter + website Pick up a round of drinks! This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit thecommon.place/subscribe
Published 12/24/22
Bonus! Tsh recently talked with Sam Smith and his teenage son, Josiah, about the fine art of writing a book together. Sam, often known as S.D., is the author of the beloved Green Ember series, and his son came up with an idea for his own story. So, he took him under his wing and together they published the first in a new book series! Sam and Josiah share with Tsh what it’s like to write together and how to cultivate a home life that loves good stories. S.D. and J.C. Smith's new book, Jack...
Published 12/16/22
With Advent in full force and Christmas on its way, Seth and Tsh keep it lighter-hearted in this episode. They share what's adding more joy to their days in the categories of movies/TV series, music, books, and habits. Bookmark this episode's show notes for your upcoming holiday downtime! Seth's newsletter + website Tsh's newsletter + website Tsh's 2022 Gift Guide Pick up a round of drinks! Our recommended reads Onyx Coffee Spirited Naughty or Nice Every Hallmark Christmas Movie The Man Who...
Published 12/09/22
We all have a liturgy to our lives, even if we don't call it that. So why bother with one that's old and global, too? Since Advent is the start of a new liturgical year, Seth and Tsh unpack what the calendar is and why it matters. Not so much a deep dive, this chat is more of a high-level perspective on why it's good to lean into a rhythm for marking time outside of ourselves. Seth's newsletter + website Tsh's newsletter + website Tsh's 2022 Gift Guide Pick up a round of drinks! Our...
Published 11/25/22
Seth is joined by Myles Werntz, a professor of theology, and in this chat they unpack what's meant by community, a word we toss around a lot in our culture. What's the real difference between in-person and virtual communities? What do screens provide a community when they're needed, and what do they rob us of when they're not? And what's the takeaway for our day-to-day lives? p.s. - Seth & Tsh will be back together next episode! Seth's newsletter + website Pick up a round of drinks! Our...
Published 11/11/22
Tsh is joined by a good friend — her husband, Kyle! A late-night conversation, they reflect on how travel has affected their 20-year marriage and why you (yes, you!) should join them next summer in Ireland. ☘️ Tsh's newsletter + website Pick up a round of drinks! Our recommended reads Create your Rule of Life Come to Ireland! Somebody Feed Phil in Ireland
Published 10/28/22
Both adult Catholic converts from a lifetime of Protestantism, Seth and Tsh each could do a 12-part series on why they swam the Tiber. In this chat, Seth unpacks with Tsh just a few items in his backpack worn on his journey to the Church. If you’re curious about what compelled him to walk this path, this episode’s for you. Seth's Newsletter + Website Tsh's newsletter + website Pick up a round of drinks! Our recommended reads Create your Rule of Life Part 1 of Tsh’s journey to the Church...
Published 10/14/22
More and more folks are talking about the ills of social media, but the platforms remain hugely popular (and addictive). Seth asks Tsh about her recent decision to leave Instagram even though "they" say writers should be there if they want to sell books. She was willing to leave her large-ish following and decade-plus feed for something better — and she has zero regrets. Seth's Newsletter + Website Tsh's newsletter + website Pick up a round of drinks! Our recommended reads Tsh's...
Published 09/30/22
What does it mean to be a man or a woman? And just as important in today's culture, how do we have civil, truthful, loving conversations about that topic? Seth and Tsh are joined by author and professor Abigail Favale to talk about those things. She's written a book that's taking off like wildfire about one of the most pressing questions of the day — who are we as men and women? Seth's Newsletter + Website Tsh's newsletter + website Pick up a round of drinks! Our recommended reads The...
Published 09/16/22
We're back! Seth and Tsh recap Italy, but don't worry, it's not done in a way that bores you if you weren't there... They reflect on why it's always true that ordinary conversations with new friends over gelato are more meaningful than touring even the most jaw-dropping cathedrals and monasteries (though that's great, too). They also share recorded thoughts from some of the folks who joined them in Italy. We're all made for in-person connection, and this is why having a drink with a friend...
Published 09/02/22
It's good to remember the good things in life, especially when the news is heavy (when is ever not anymore, right?). And since art has a season, Seth and Tsh share their summery music, movies, TV shows, and books they're into right now. Because good art tells good stories, even when they're lighthearted. Also: it's time for their annual summer break! Seth and Tsh will return in mid-August — in the meantime, enjoy the treasure trove of Drink archives, listen to other good shows, or just take...
Published 07/08/22
Tsh talks to her good friend, Sarah Mackenzie, about what makes good stories (especially for our kids). She's got a HUGE new project in the works: not only a new children's book, but a new publishing house! When it's hard to publish new classics that tell timeless truths, you gotta start the company yourself. Why do we need more stories that tell us things that were as true a thousand years ago as they are today? Listen in. Tsh's newsletter + website Pick up a round of drinks Come to Italy...
Published 07/01/22
It's now Tsh's turn to update us on her six-month challenge: what she's learned living as best she can in a 100-mile radius. She and Seth talk about the importance of subsidiarity, reorienting our priorities, finding community IN an actual community (vs. online), and doing it all imperfectly. Is living locally worth the effort? Tsh has thoughts. Seth: Newsletter | Website Tsh: Newsletter | Website Pick up a round of drinks Come to Italy with us Our recommended reads Seth's challenge: 6...
Published 06/24/22
It's June, which means Seth and Tsh are at the end of their first of the year challenges. Seth updates us on what he's learned being away from social media for six months, what he'll do differently, and what he misses. Tsh chimes in on her reflections about using our phones as instruments instead of devices so that the internet returns to how it works best: as a bicycle for the mind.  Seth: Newsletter | Website Tsh: Newsletter | Website Pick up a round of drinks Come to Italy with us Our...
Published 06/17/22
Hobbies aren't just the things we do whenever we have spare time — they're actually important to our health. The things we do just because we enjoy them, staying at amateur status for the love of the craft, starting at the beginning and learning from zero, make us more of who we're made to be. Seth and Tsh each share some of their favorite hobbies and why they're so important to them. Seth: Newsletter | Website Tsh: Newsletter | Website Pick up a round of drinks Come to Italy with us Our...
Published 06/10/22
Seth moseys by a river and sits among the birds to explain what's up this week. He and Tsh be back next week with a new episode! Stay tuned.
Published 06/03/22
Both Seth and Tsh became Catholic just a few years ago, as adults after a lifetime of being Protestant. Why? ...That's the question they get asked by many of you ALL the time. In this episode, they dip their toes in the water of answering this massive question that doesn't have just one answer, focusing first more on Tsh's journey. (This will likely be an ongoing series, peppered throughout other chats...)  Seth: Newsletter | Website Tsh: Newsletter | Website Pick up a round of drinks Come...
Published 05/27/22
It's the end of the school year, and May is always nuts. When life feels flustered, it's grounding to remember the ordinary things adding beauty to our days. Seth and Tsh each share what they're currently reading, watching, and listening to that are bringing them more joy and insight. Seth: Newsletter | Website Tsh: Newsletter | Website Pick up a round of drinks Come to Italy with us — $250 off when you register by May 31, 2022! Our recommended reads Tsh's Summer 2022 playlist ​​  The Black...
Published 05/20/22
How do we connect with people when our differences are exacerbated by algorithms and echo chambers? Seth and Tsh are joined around the table by their friends Beth Silvers and Sarah Stewart-Holland from the podcast Pantsuit Politics — together, they chat about what it looks like to listen and learn from others when it feels like we disagree on almost everything. Beth and Sarah's podcast, Pantsuit Politics Their new book, Now What? Seth: Newsletter | Website Tsh: Newsletter | Website Pick up a...
Published 05/13/22
Particular places in the world matter, whether they're your grandma's childhood home or the Sistene Chapel. Going to them matters, too, and it's a privilege and honor to do so because the journey, the arrival, and the conversations once we're there shape us for the better. Go to them when you can. Seth: Newsletter | Website Tsh: Newsletter | Website Pick up a round of drinks Come to Italy with us — $250 off when you register by May 31, 2022! Our recommended reads Tornado Trackers...
Published 05/06/22