In episode 29, following the end of a toxic marriage, Tanji shares a story about dismantling the illusions of what truly makes a fulfilling life. Show notes: If you have experienced narcissistic abuse or any type of abuse, one of the best things you can do is educate yourself. Learning the signs to be aware of helps you see clearer and is the beginning of your journey towards healing. "The wound is the place where the light enters you." - Rumi Sign up at www.thelayover.com to receive notes, book recommendations, and a new story to your inbox every Thursday.