Join Mary and her former part time co-host and best friend, Lindsley Brooks as they dig into how emotional intelligence affects your interpersonal relationships. We all learned in our childhoods emotional survival techniques. We learned how to be seen, get love, and gain approval. These emotional blueprints and patterns often come with us into adulthood causing us to abandon ourselves in order to attempt to get our needs met. How do we learn something new? How do we learn to be in a healthy relationship with another person? When we find ourselves stuck in these patterns it is time to face the hard work of undoing the foundation of our patterning. Listen as Mary and Lindsley candidly talk about how when we notice the roles we played as children showing up in our adult relationships, it is really an invitation to do the work to usher in deeper healing.   ON THIS EPISODE WE WILL DISCUSS… - Identifying the roles you played as a child to get your needs met - The importance of doing relationships well - How and why we self abandon in relationships - Indicators that you might be emotionally codependent - What “Spiritual Bypassing” is and how you might be doing it - The definition of “Gaslighting” and how it shows up in relationships - Why emotional dysregulation is really a cry for safety - Why emotional regulation is really about creating wholeness - And more!    — SEASON 3: In this 8 part series we will be talking about Feeling To Heal in order to Live Fully Alive --- Text Me: https://maryhyatt.com/text Follow Me On Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maryghyatt/  Full List of Episodes & Show Notes: https://www.maryhyatt.com/showSubscribe to My Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/maryhyatt