Becoming a first-time mom is quite the adjustment period. I knew that I wanted to be there for my oldest daughter as she began her motherhood journey but I did not want to be overbearing or step on any toes.  Going into the experience of becoming a grandma I wanted to be as helpful as possible so I reached out to this amazing MomForce community for advice. You all shared heartfelt experiences and tips that I decided to pack into this mini episode for you. From freezer meals to the nighttime shift I am truly grateful for everything that was shared. Thank you for sending your thoughts and if you are about to become a mom or grandma I know that you will find something helpful in this episode!  The joy that our new granddaughter has brought into our family cannot be overstated. If you want to see a few of my favorite moments so far find me on Instagram @vanessaquigley.  Time codes:  00:55 Vanessa’s experience having her babies  1:40 Treat the new mom like your baby, get her everything she needs  2:30 Don’t ask to hold the baby constantly, help with everything else around the baby like cooking and cleaning 3:45 Let the new parents do the baby stuff, you help run the household  4:30 Let the new mom hold the baby  5:00 How to be proactive but not presumptuous  5:20 How to help with meals and snacks 6:00 Be a gatekeeper for unwanted visitors  6:15 Run all the errands  7:00 The night shift  8:05 How to reassure the new parents that they can do it and are totally capable 9:00 Take all the pictures and videos  Use code: MOMFORCE for 20% off your first Chatbooks order!  Follow Vanessa Follow Chatbooks Try out HeyFam our new family chat app