This week on the show, John Henderson joins me to talk about the impact of positive comment in somebody's life, his story about being in jail and all about his book, SWAY. I also shared about committing to get up 4 AM everyday for the whole September. John and I discuss: Doing poorly in school because he doesn't fit and think in the structured manner the school wanted Turning his life around and realising that you are the result of the choices you've made How everybody in jail thinks they are innocent while successful people he knows think they are guilty How kids are taught to be generalists when the world rewards specialists The problem is with the way you are measuring what is and isn't intelligence How one positive comment can change somebody’s whole life Finding who to be loyal to and who not to be loyal to is important Difference made by caring and empathy versus strict humiliation and discipline John's story of being in jail under "Americas toughest sheriff" Success doesn't happen without doing the work. Influence is anytime somebody considers another person or an activity prior to making decision. About his new book SWAY: The Link Between Autism and Influence. More about John John Henderson is a speaker, top 10 Amazon bestselling author, and occasional blogger. He went from homeless, high school dropout to author and owner of a multi million dollar business. He is probably the only guy you know who rode to work every day on a rope, attached to the bottom of a helicopter for six months, in Hawaii. He has spoken all across the country, but you can connect with John at the following places.