Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! This is a special one as we invite Dr. Nicole LePera to chime in on your burning questions. Before we get to our callers, Dr. Nicole Lepera shares her general advice on modern dating, her journey to becoming a psychologist, and her experience being in a throuple. Then we get to our callers…  Our first caller is ‘d*ckmatized’ by her ex. After multiple dates with other men, she can’t get over the chemistry and convenience she had in her previous situation. Our second caller found her husband on Grindr, a gay dating app. She’s thinking of getting a divorce, but doesn’t want to out his sexuality to his family. Our final caller has already decided she wants a divorce, but is unsure how to tell her husband. They have kids, he has a drinking problem, and she hasn't reached out to an attorney yet. What should her timeline be? “Give yourself a moment to maybe try on not being ok for just a second” Start your 7 Day Free Trial of Viall Files + here: https://viallfiles.supportingcast.fm/  Please make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss an episode and as always send in your relationship questions to [email protected] to be a part of our Monday episodes.  To Order Nick’s Book Go To: https://www.viallfiles.com  If you would like to get some texting advice, send an email to [email protected] with “Texting Office Hours” in the subject line!  To advertise on the show, contact [email protected] or visit https://www.advertisecast.com/TheViallFiles  THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: FirstLeaf - Join Firstleaf today, a wine club that really gets you. Go to https://www.tryfirstleaf.com/VIALL  Vessi - Vessi's got you covered. From chic city walks to adventurous treks, find the perfect pair for your lifestyle at https://www.vessi.com/VIALL to get 15% off your first order. ShipStation - Get a 60-day free trial at https://www.shipstation.com and use code viallfiles. Thanks to ShipStation for sponsoring the show! BetterHelp - Learn to make time for what makes you happy. Visit https://www.betterhelp.com/VIALL today to get 10% off your first month. Factor- Head to https:www.factormeals.com/VIALL50 and use code VIALL50 to get 50% off. Episode Socials: @viallfiles @nickviall @the.holistic.psychologist @alison.vandam @dereklanerussell