Hello and welcome to another episode of the Perception Podcast with me your host Caroline Partridge. Today I talk to inspiring Queen of Sparkle and the most sophisticated 5 year old you'll ever meet Carole Pyke. Carole is a medical anomaly, a two time stroke survivor and one of only 13% of stroke survivors who suffered a bleed on the brain, which left her with 5 years worth of conscious memory and no recollection of what life was like before 2019. Carole shares the fascinating story of how her hidden disability has changed her perspective on life - how the doors of possibility have flung open and how she motivates others to accept the present with gratitude, embody their uniqueness and show up unapologetically. So please join me as we look at life through a different lens. KEY TAKEAWAYS Carole Pyke, a two-time stroke survivor, lives with only five years of conscious memory due to a bleed on the brain, which has significantly impacted her identity and daily life. Embracing the present and focusing on moving forward, rather than trying to reclaim the past, is crucial for navigating life's challenges and finding happiness. Resilience is a skill that can be developed by recognising one's ability to overcome obstacles, no matter how small or large they may seem. Identity is shaped by our memories and experiences, but it is also a choice in how we define ourselves and the stories we tell about who we are. Comparison can be a useful tool for understanding the world, but it should never be the basis for how we live our lives or measure our self-worth. True success and happiness come from discovering and embracing one's unique "flavour" or essence, and fearlessly sharing it with the world. Reframing challenges as adventures and focusing on possibilities rather than limitations can lead to a more fulfilling and joyful life. Societal conditioning often pushes us to chase external markers of success, but true contentment comes from within and appreciating what we already have. BEST MOMENTS "I say the past informs the present because quite literally your past has set you up for now, but it doesn't determine how it is that you move forward unless you choose to." "I believe that there are people who found the extra in their ordinary, and that's the element that makes them extraordinary." "Your job is to find your flavour and then sprinkle that wherever you go. Season every dish with your flavour." "I often say things like guns do not kill people. People with guns kill people." "I see life as this amazing adventure and I'm an intrepid explorer."   ABOUT THE GUEST  Carole Pyke Blog With over 30 years of marketing expertise, Carole helps ambitious women leaders, entrepreneurs, and business owners discover and leverage their Sparkle. Carole's core values are represented by HUGS, Sparkle, and Storytelling. She emphasises active listening, understanding, and giving back value. Carole's vibrant and enthusiastic attitude towards life encourages others to embrace their own unique qualities and find their inner radiance. Through her authentic and compelling storytelling, Carole touches the hearts and minds of others, leaving a lasting impact. Despite the challenges she faces, Carole continues to make a positive difference in the world, demonstrating that even in the face of adversity, one can find strength, purpose, and leave a lasting Sparkle. Socials & Contact Social Media: https://www.instagram.comhttps://www.linkedin/in/carolepykehttps://www.facebook.com/sparklenavigatorhttps://www.tiktok.com/carolepyke Websites:https://www.wordsthatdeliver.com https://www.ThePersonalBrandingSPA.com My TEDx talk: Freedom in forgetting; memory loss, essence found | Carole Pyke | TEDxLewisham CONTACT METHOD FACEBOOK - https://www.facebook.com/caropartridge LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/caroline-partridge-03131520 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/partridge_caroline