5 Questions to ask yourself to find out. If you’ve ever wondered why you find yourself over committed, exhausted and depleted, this show is for you. You’ll have the opportunity to take a short quiz to see if you have a pattern common to many…people pleasing. While generously doing for others can feel great at times, the scales can easily tip into overwhelm, resentment and a lack of self-care. Even a loss of identity. Listen to learn the ins and outs of this common, sometimes destructive, pattern.