Nour Haydar wanted to be a journalist, but when her father murdered her mother, she had second thoughts. The media coverage was relentless, often inaccurate and in some cases painted a picture of Nour's family she hardly recognised. In the end Nour decided to join the ABC. Today, after the killing of Hannah Clarke and her 3 children in Brisbane, we speak to Nour about what the media is still getting wrong when covering the violent deaths of women and the impact that has on families.