How does unschooling affect sibling dynamics? Daniele says unschooling helps her different children to get the different things that they want and need. Sandra didn’t want to make a rule against hitting, and encourages parents to help siblings work things out. Rose and her two sisters fought when they were little and now they’re best friends. Kayla says, before she unschooled, the stresses of school put a big strain on her relationship with her siblings. Leah says her five children now relate more as friends than they do as siblings. And Family Tree is one of Tom Chapin's oldest all-time number one hits.