This is where you hear me, Layla, share my musings. I round-up what Bhanu shared about growing up between cultures and not completely fitting in either 'back home' or in one's adopted home. I also question what societal 'norms' really are and where they come from with a look at how many of our contemporary beliefs or views, including about homosexuality, come from colonial laws or foreign oppression that don't always reflect honestly on local culture. Like Bhanu said, it is time to decolonise our minds...