When I started exploring the kinkier side of my sex life, I focused on what it meant to be more dominant, but it also helped me get in touch with my submissive side. I realized I had to un-learn many of the misconceptions I had about what it meant to have someone in control of me. Lina Dune AKA AskASub shares her journey as a sub and breaks down subspace, red flags on dating apps, and why it feels so good to let go.   Read Nichole's article, “What It's Like Being A Black Woman In A Dom/Sub Relationship With A White Man,” and the Bitch Media article on WAP as a feminist anthem.   Indulgence Nichole recommends flameless candles!   Guest Lina Dune is a bisexual submissive in a 24/7 D/s relationship and a proponent of healing BDSM. She goes by @askasub on Instagram where she makes kink-centered memes, gives D/s relationship advice, and serves as fairy-submother to her 70K followers.   Sponsors - BetterHelp, a secure online counseling service. Get 10% off your first month at betterhelp.com/thisisgood - Listen to Beatrix Green every Monday, wherever you get your podcasts.   Find Us Online - Twitter: @ThisIsGoodPod - Instagram: @ThisIsGoodPod - Merch: thisisgoodpod.com/merch - Patreon: thisisgoodpod.com/patreon - Nichole: @tnwhiskeywoman - Multitude: @MultitudeShows - Email: [email protected]   Production - Producer: Eric Silver - Editor: Brandon Grugle - Executive Producers: Amanda McLoughlin and Nichole Perkins - Theme Music: Donwill - Artwork: Jessica E. Boyd   About The Show Nichole Perkins wants people to stop feeling bad about feeling good, and This Is Good For You lets you know you are never alone in what you like. Every episode, Nichole explores something that people love—whether it’s needlepoint, watching bad movies with friends, or cowgirl exercise classes—and asks experts and devotees why it makes them happy. She ends each show with an Indulgence: a recommendation listeners can enjoy with no remorse. There’s no such thing as a guilty pleasure when you learn to love it freely! To find out what’s good for you, listen to new episodes every other Friday.