Shownotes Nico’s journey from tech bro to spiritual leader The most powerful way to reach a natural high How a ritual space can support pain and discomfort The 3 most important tools on Nico’s path to Tantra Nico’s advice for men: go twice as slow What Nico would say to men who feel resistant to Tantra The power of masculine presence during sex Bio @nicodimattina https://nicodimattina.com/ Nico is an inspiring meditation teacher, powerful speaker and popular Peak Performance Coach who began his career as a professional athlete. As an Australian football player, he discovered the required qualities for successful leadership and elite team performance. After relocating to the USA, Nico stepped into the world of Talent Acquisition, contributing his skills to renowned tech giants such as Google, Pandora Music and Coinbase. Residing in fast-paced locations like New York, San Francisco & Los Angeles, he spent most of his time in go-mode until discovering a daily meditation practice. Once engaged in a process of transformational and personal growth, Nico found himself blown away by the incredible and immediate impact his daily transcending meditation practice had on his health, energy levels, clarity of purpose and emotional balance. Since then, he’s been on a profound mission to share these powerful benefits with the world and has spent the past decade dedicating himself to discovering and sharing this timeless wisdom. Timestamps 00:00:00 - Episode Intro clips 00:00:46 - This Tantric Life with Layla Martin 00:01:21 - Introduction to Nico Dimattina 00:04:05 - How did you go from tech bro (working at Google)  to spiritual leader? 00:11:48 - How high can we get naturally? Meditate twice a day, 20min each 00:16:36 - Gratitude is the highest practice 00:18:43 - Tantric Mastermind for Couples: https://vita.laylamartin.com/tantric-mastermind 00:20:10 - Enjoying some Sex Magic in martini glasses: https://shopmood.com/shop-all/mood-sex-magic-sexy-plant-activated-elixir/ 00:20:50 - Can I create a ritual space to feel the uncomfortable things? 00:24:22 - How they met and what happened in the backyard 00:29:51 - In your path to becoming a Tantric lover, what were the 3 most important tools for you? 00:37:18 - Working with a coach for a desirable outcome. Beautiful without penetration. Safe 00:41:18 - Advice for men: go twice as slow 00:44:13 - In meditation we talk allow & accept (let go of expectations). This extends to love making 00:49:22 - Can you explain being present during sex? 00:49:53 - Having a practice to keep in the 50 to 70% arousal zone 00:51:48 - How do you move the energy in your breathwork? (control ejaculation) 01:01:46  - Do you breath and microcosmic orbit the whole time?  01:02:38 - What does it do for you as a man? 01:06:03 - What would you say to other men that are resistant to doing the work to get to a Tantric experience? 01:09:03 - How to work with Nico: https://www.instagram.com/nicodimattina/ 01:11:11 - Conclusion - Thank you for listening  Connect with Layla: https://laylamartin.com/join-list/ ===   Follow Layla!  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelaylamartin/ Website: www.laylamartin.com   Sign up to receive my free weekly email that allows you to slowly master the art of experiencing confidence, power, sexiness, radiance, and true love: https://laylamartin.com/join-list/   Listen on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-tantric-life-with-layla-martin/id1685418994   Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/72iBpAwMSsTl9zLk8fHMp1?si=9f465574aa114d63   MOOD Sexy Plant Activated Supplements: https://shopmood.com/   For Men: Learn advanced sexual skills that will make you the best possible lover by unlocking your primal power AND your partner's pleasure in Men's Sexual Mastery - https://hubs.ly/Q01c_Wgx0   Obliss: The Sexual Masterclass for Women. This 6-week online course contains 24 transformative exerci