Ever felt the weight of expectations tipping the scales against your authentic self? I've wrestled with the same challenge, longing for societal acceptance while yearning to embrace my true identity. In the heartfelt echoes of this episode, I share my personal voyage from the chains of people-pleasing to the serene shores of self-acceptance. A particular spotlight shines on Black Women, as we delve into our unique narratives, encouraging you to redefine success and seize the freedom that accompanies it. My father's lessons on gratitude weave through our discussion, offering a compass for navigating both our internal landscapes and professional waters. The professional realm is seldom a straight path – it's a rich tapestry of opportunities, rejections, and the intricate choreography of work-life balance. Join me as I recount tales of resilience in job searches, the enlightenment found in declining roles that don't resonate with personal timing, and the artful dance of contract negotiations. Through the lens of my own experiences, including the ups and downs of a contracting career and the transformative decisions as a new mother, this episode serves as a testament to the conscious planning and dedication needed for cultivating a thriving career that now balances mum life. This is a call to action; to build personal growth opportunities, foster supportive networks, and engage in the crucial conversations about representation and advancement. If you're looking for a roadmap to navigate your career with strategy and intention, or if you're eager to share your own experiences, I'm here to offer insight and support. Let's journey together towards empowerment, integrity, and boundary-setting – the cornerstones of not just a career, but a life lived with purpose. Sponsorships - Email me: [email protected] TikTok: toya_washington Twitter: @toya_w (#ToyaTalksPodcast) Snapchat: @toyawashington Instagram: @toya_washington & @toya_talks www.toyatalks.com https://toyatalks.com/