Ever pondered the complexities of dating outside one's social class? Ever wondered why some relationships are fraught with friction and insecurities, while others explore new frontiers of understanding and shared values? Join us, as we step into this intricate social matrix with mental health advocate, Siren, relationship expert, Ms Wendy, and therapist Arne. Together, we examine the impact of social class on our relationships, and how it shapes our etiquette, insecurities, and even our friendships. In this fascinating conversation, we delve into topics like hypergamy, the psychological effects of dating across social barriers, and the particular experiences of black women. We unpack the often unspoken dynamics of money, values, and societal norms, and how they influence our interactions and perceptions. What happens when someone mocks another over the cost of something? How do insecurities manifest in female friendships? And most importantly, how does the wisdom encapsulated in an African proverb resonate within the context of these discussions? As we navigate the dating landscape, race, gender, and class inevitably shape our experiences and decisions. We discuss the challenges and realities of dating as black women, highlighting the existing social and economic structures that influence this arena. Love is a verb, and understanding this principle can profoundly impact our relationships. So, come join us, as we unravel the threads of love, potential, and healing across social classes and cultural norms. This is a journey of self-discovery and honest conversations, an exploration of societal norms, and a challenge to our understanding of love and relationships. Support the show