Note: This episode is most definitely not safe for work. Roxy Fox is a sex educator & coach, yoga and tantra teacher, writer, artist, traveller and rebel at heart. She came into my world as my coach in this dimension and because of the impact she’s had on my life, this was a special conversation. It is a raw, honest, vulnerable, explicit and empowering journey into sex: a topic that has for so long been taboo. Roxy is one of the deepest and most philosophical thinkers I have had the pleasure of speaking to. She is one of those rare human beings that has fallen deeply into her purpose, mastering a craft by way of exploration and experimentation. By mastering her craft, I don’t mean her aptitude in a bedroom. I mean that she has experienced sex at such a depth that it has become the portal through which she experiences the full force of life’s rich tapestry, and in return is afforded a level of connection and fusion with that dimension of her life that is spiritual in nature. Roxy discusses the work she does and how she got there: her first recollections of orgasm, her foray into sex work (and why she does not recommend it), her experiences as a professional dominatrix, dealing with the projection of shame from others, exploring tantra and realising sexual fantasies. In order to explore how Roxy’s work helps, we also use my own experience: why I ended up looking for a coach like Roxy and how her work helped me. I have never shared something so vulnerable on Unmapped before. I’m a little scared to release this, if I’m honest. Listening to her, you get the sense she is a human being in total alignment with a purpose she was destined to fulfil.  It is an honour to bring you this episode. Enjoy it, folks. 00:00 - 4:00 - Intro 4:00 - 08:00 - Roxy’s Relationship to Sex, Masturbating to Cope with Trauma 08:53 - 12:41 - The Female Orgasm 12:41 - 18:20 - Women, Sex & Shame, Sex and Mindfulness 18:20 - 30:30 - Sex in Society, A G******g’s Aftermath 30:30 - 39:20 - The Negatives of Sex Work, Making our Sex Lives Conscious 39:20 - 48:30 - Roxy’s Journey to Sex Education, Working Towards Soul & Purpose, Healthy vs Unhealthy Fetishes 48:30 - 1:04:08 - Mike’s Journey & Roxy’s Work 1:04:08 - 1:07:30 - When to Try Tantra 1:07:30 - END - Mastering a Craft and Outro