Have you ever felt happy and sad at the same time? Or maybe torn between two (or more) emotions? At some point in our lives, we have all found ourselves in a push and pull emotional state, and the contrasting feelings may have led to confusion, uncertainty, and maybe even ambivalence.  A question from a Voice Hug listener on how to manage the experience of polarizing feelings inspired Vivian and Rowena to reflect on instances where they thought they should have felt a certain way (logically), but instead experienced a different feeling (emotionally). Could we hold space for more than one emotion at once? How do we make sense of this spectrum of emotions? Stay tuned for a reflective story-filled episode and a little takeaway tip involving the word "should" ;)  Mentions: Psychology Today Article: "Can You Fee Two Emotions At Once?"  Say hello :) Email: [email protected] IG: @voicehugspodcast Viv's IG: @vivianxvan Ro's IG: @rowenatsai --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/voicehugs/support