Guest Keanan Beyers: https://www.lifetime.co.nz/find-an-adviser/view/keanan-beyers/ Takeaways Living in Cape Town can be challenging due to crime and the need to be constantly vigilant. A diagnosis of type 1 diabetes can have a significant impact on one's life and requires careful management. Growing up in challenging circumstances can shape one's perspective and behavior. Finding a balance between enjoying life and making responsible decisions is important. Partying and a carefree lifestyle can sometimes be an attempt to fill a void or mask deeper issues. Maturity often comes from facing difficult circumstances and making tough decisions. Strict upbringings can limit a person's ability to explore their identity and enjoy their youth. Rebellious phases and partying may provide temporary escape, but they do not solve underlying issues. Discovering that you are not the biological parent of a child can be emotionally devastating and lead to a loss of trust. Betrayal and financial struggles can be challenging, but holding on and staying focused can lead to positive change. Patience and perseverance are key in overcoming difficult situations and finding a better path forward. Chapters 00:00 Growing Up in Cape Town 01:28 New Chapter 04:52 Overcoming Adversity and Leaving South Africa 07:48 Living with Type 1 Diabetes 09:49 Early Life Challenges and Wrong Choices 13:35 Navigating Boarding School and Cultural Differences 17:34 Struggles at Home and Financial Constraints 24:32 Finding Balance and Making Life Choices 25:41 Filling a Void and Seeking Maturity 27:42 Strict Upbringing and Lack of Freedom 28:48 Limited Independence and Struggles with Expression 31:05 Party Lifestyle and Avoidance of Responsibility 35:25 False Paternity Claim and Betrayal 38:20 Moving Forward and Starting Fresh 43:26 Saying Goodbye to the Pretend Son 47:51 Deception and Manipulation 49:18 Words of Encouragement