Dating Danes: learning the (missing?) language of love in Denmark
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For a culture that is normally so practical and matter-of-fact (see Separate Duvets), Danes seem to find it surprisingly difficult to talk about relationships. Compared with other cultures, it’s rare in Denmark to ask someone out on a date in person (unless drunk) and there’s often missing vocabulary around defining what relationships are (there’s no direct translation for “dating”). All this means that non-Danes (and to some extent, Danes) can really struggle with navigating the world of relationships in Denmark.  In this episode we seek to explore why, and offer advice on what to do! Sam and Josefine are joined in the studio by Line Kirsten Nikolajsen, a radio presenter at DR (the Danish national broadcaster) who used to present Giftekniv, a show all about helping young people in the world of dating.  In the episode we cover: Advice on how to approach a Danish person you think looks hotHow to do a first date in DenmarkA warning on saying “I love you” to a DaneDifferences between heterosexual and homosexual relationshipsThe gender (in)equality in Danish relationshipsDanes (perhaps) being more comfortable dating friends than strangersExperiences dating in Denmark vs abroad And several times investigating the sense that Danes (as a general rule) struggle to talk about romantic feelings, and how that is reflected in the Danish language. We had some additional help on this episode from student journalist Frida Rottländer who joined us in the studio, and Sue-Angel Nyleti who conducted additional research. A few things that we spoke about include Dating advice from Maroua SajebDating Without Borders video “What not to do on a date in Denmark” If you have any thoughts on this episode please do comment on our Instagram - we’d love to hear what you think! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ This episode is sponsored by Talent to Denmark's "State of Denmark" campaign. Denmark is actively looking to attract international talent to move to the country. If you're interested to learn more about jobs in (one of) the happiest countries in the world, head to www.state-of-denmark.com/wtd ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ You can also learn more about What The Denmark on our website, Facebook and Instagram 
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