The girls debrief on the pros and cons of living abroad, friends making the effort when you do move away and living between two places. They also discuss the pressures of having babies once you're married, those questions that everyone hates being asked and the judgement from others about enjoying/not enjoying pregnancy!  They chat about the grossest thing you listeners have ever witnessed on public transport (prepare to retch) and of course end with two dilemmas from you guys!  We want to hear from you! What do you think of what the girls discussed this week? Have you a dilemma of your own you want to share? Voice note or send us a message to [email protected] or DM us on Instagram @whatwedontpostpodcast  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices