Feeling desired, even “wooed”, is the romantic high that that poetry, film, literature, and music have prepped us for all our lives, right? But how realistic is it to expect all the passion, mystery, and excitement to continue throughout a long lifetime together? Is it possible to create romance-on-demand at any age or any stage? In this episode of the WifeSavers Podcast, "The Best Of the WifeSavers Podcast: Romance and Desire That Last", multi-award-winning marriage author and educator, Ramona Zabriskie, and her husband of 40+ years, Dale, answer a wife who is longing for days past when she felt that her husband was attentive and amorous, drawn and devoted to her. Throw Me a WifeSaver: “My husband was INCREDIBLE with me for so long...he was doting on me, loving on me, encouraging me. Now I don't feel that way, and I don't know how to fix it. What can I do? How do I bring romance back into my marriage?” Listen and learn loving strategies that are more doable than cynics might think and more down-to-earth than romantics might expect! Why “romance” is important to women Our two great needs at odds in the quest for romance How today’s expectations of marriage differ from the past The definition of love vs. desire and why we want both 3 dynamics that make us desire, or feel drawn toward, our spouse 6 challenges that will bust complacency and cultivate excitement "I love listening to the dynamic between Ramona and Dale and hope that my husband and I will be like them in 30 years!" ✭✭✭✭✭ ITunes/Apple listener (We’d so appreciate your review on Apple/iTunes or your favorite podcast platform!)