"Meditations" is a series of personal writings by the Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius written around 170 AD. It’s a reflection of his Stoic philosophy and guidance for his own self-improvement. I first encountered this profound work at the commencement of my "Year Of The Opposite," and its wisdom left an indelible mark on me. What I found particularly striking about "Meditations" is that it was never intended for public consumption; it was a deeply personal journal, a dialogue between Marcus and his inner self. The first section of this book resonates with me profoundly, as Marcus took the time to express gratitude and acknowledge the individuals who shaped his life. Inspired by this, I've embarked on a similar journey, penning my own "Debts and Lessons" to honor those who have influenced and guided me. Please know that this is not an exhaustive list of all of the people that have influenced me. This was just my first list and in no particular order. If you are not included on this list, it is likely because you will be included on the next list. It in no way diminishes the important role you have had in my life. Debts and Lessons: Travis Stoliker Love: * Laken Stoliker (Wife): Laken, the love of my life, completes me in every sense. Her kindness and dedication to connecting with family are unparalleled. She challenges my certainties, making me introspect and grow. As an incredible mother and provider, she's the cornerstone of our family. Knowing her has made me a better man, and I often find myself wishing I'd heed her wisdom even more. * Lane Stoliker (Son): I have never loved anything as much as I love and cherish you. From you I have learned a deeper understanding and appreciation for the many sacrifices that my mother and father made for me and my brother. From you I have learned the importance of patience and understanding. You have given me the greatest joy of my life, being your father. Family: * Dorothy Sweeney (Grandmother): Grandma Sweeney is the heart of our family, connecting us all at the Cabin on Peach Lake. Every handwritten note she penned for my birthdays was a testament to her love and thoughtfulness. The memories forged on Peach Lake remain the most cherished of my childhood. The weeks spent on the farm with her and Larry were not just fun but also lessons in hard work and understanding the origins of our sustenance. * Mike Brady (Grandfather): Grandpa Mike Brady stands as a paragon of virtue in my life. The simple joys of helping him mow the lawn or polish the floors in his high-rise building are memories I hold dear. As he spent his twilight years with my family, our bond deepened. His stories, rarely shared with others, became treasures he confided in me, making me feel truly special. His love and trust have left an indelible mark on my heart. * Bobby Ray (Grandmother-in-Law): Bobby's perpetual positivity and class have always drawn me to her. Her excitement to see her family and her ever-present happiness make her one of my favorite people in the world. * Mary Jo Stoliker (Mother): From my mother, I learned the invaluable lesson of cherishing time with family. She instilled in me the importance of creating memories and the joy of travel. Through her, I understood that life's moments are fleeting, and it's essential to make the most of them with those we love. If I ever needed anything, I know my mother would be there for me and I feel so lucky for that. * Tom Stoliker (Father): My father exemplifies the essence of hard work. Observing him, I often found myself in awe of his laid-back nature, a quality I've come to admire and aspire to. More than anything, he taught me that dedicating one's life to family is of paramount importance. His commitment and love for us have been unwavering, showing me the depth of familial bonds. * Steven Stoliker (Brother): My brother, with his infectious humor, has always been a beacon of light in my life. His easy-going nature and ability to connect with everyone