‘Giving choices’ is a hot tool in the respectful parenting world. In the scripts, it usually goes like this: Child: “I want a snack!” Parent: “OK! Would you like an apple or a banana?” Child: “A banana, please!” And the parent hands over the banana. But when you actually try it in your own home, it usually looks more like this: Your child: “I want a snack!” You: “OK! Would you like an apple or a banana?” Your child: “I want cookies!” WHY IS THAT?! Why does it never ‘work’ the way it’s supposed to? Why doesn’t our child follow the script? There’s a simple and easy reason, and in this episode I break it down - and teach you the effective tool to use instead of giving choices. Join us for the FREE Setting Loving (and Effective!) Limits workshop Don’t forget - the FREE Setting Loving (and Effective!) Limits workshop is here! If you choose our self-directed FlexPath option, you can start right NOW, and get a new module as soon as you finish the previous one. Or if you want me to hold your hand every step of the way, the Guided Path option starts on Wednesday April 26. There’s even an option to sign up for suuuuper cheap group coaching calls with me if you’d like to do that after you enroll.