Being a grown up is kind of weird for a lot of reasons, one of them being that you are still the child of your parents. And if your parents didn't or couldn't show up for you in the way that you needed when you were growing up, that can make your relationship with them now feel…complicated.  For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/326-complicated-relationships  ANNOUNCEMENT: My Flecks of Gold for KIDS digital download is on sale for all of November. Use code KIDS to get 50% off! For only $4.99 you can download and use for all of your kids! Episode sponsors: Vionic Shoes: Go to vionicshoes.com and use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order. Factor: Go to factormeals.com/3in3050 and use code 3in3050 to get 50% off your first box. KiwiCo: Use code 3in30 for 50% off your first month on any crate line! BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy! *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices