Sometimes, I stand at the intersection of history and personal narrative, feeling the weight of our collective past as it whispers to the present. In this episode, we're diving into the heart of post-war Austria, exploring the silent stories and untold legacies left in the wake of the nation's history with Nazism. As my partner is elsewhere, I stay behind in Vienna, balancing my roles as a partner, protector, and an individual wrestling with societal biases. This isn't just any episode; it's...

Producer's Note: Mo is off in parts unknown while I tend to her podcast houseplants. She'll be back soon, but until then, here's a great episode from just over a year ago! The title says it all. Saddle up, students, we're going to answer some questions from someone who's been interested in peeking into the world of BDSM. This is a good jumping off point if you're interested in seeing what it's about. Complete with optional reading: BDSM Checklist Different Loving The Ultimate Guide to...

Hello new peeps that heard Part 1 of our conversation on Dixie's podcast! 👋 As I said last time, you are in for a treat (but you already knew that after listening to part 1!). We're talking more about Craigslist Casual encounters—the freaky, the funny, and Dixie's fabulous "worst sex ever" story. Links and Resources:  kinkdoula.comPatreonMore from Dixie De La Tour    Thank you so much to my loyal Patrons who make this show possible! 💜 Join them here to support my work.   🤩 SUPERSTAR...

When the two of us get together, you know it's about to get rowdy. Today I welcome one of my favorite people in the whole multiverse, the Prime Minister of Storytelling (I coined that), The Empress of Tea, the one and only, Dixie De La Tour. As you'll see in this episode, she is quite the storyteller. In fact, that's her whole life—you can check out her work (and podcast) at bawdystorytelling.com. On this episode, though, we talk about the wonderful, crazy world of Craigslist Casual...

Ever been in a room where it feels like everyone's judging you, even when you're just being yourself? In this episode, I open up about the emotional turbulence that hit me after attending a leather contest over Labor Day weekend. While I've worn many titles—from Miss San Francisco Leather to International Miss Leather—I've always strived to remain authentic. But what happens when our authenticity is met with superficiality? Dive in as I, along with my Spouse Meister, navigate the stormy seas...

**Oh, before you dive into this treasure trove of wisdom and whimsy, I must warn you about a little hiccup in the audio quality. Yep, our tech gremlins were out to play! 😅 But don't fret, my dear listeners. Just consider it a quirky character trait of this episode. I promise the content will more than make up for the little audio blips.** What happens when a one-off blog post accidentally turns into a brutally honest book? And what's more—pepper in a helping of non-monogamy, extreme sports,...

In this episode, we travel through personal reflections, pop culture delights, and the hard truths of controversy. Ever felt heartbroken over a cartoon or a song? Ever stood at the crossroads of your personal experiences and a high-profile celebrity scandal? Grab your favorite comfort item and join me as we explore it all together. I share with you the exhaustion and privilege of travel, my teaching experiences in Vienna, decisions in the kink community, and how the essence of home resides in...

Ever wondered how the worlds of spirituality, sexuality, and the corporate landscape might intertwine? Join us as we journey into the "Summer of Love" season! In this invigorating episode, we delve into the profound, exploring Rebecca's transformative experiences intertwining spirituality and sexuality. As for me, I dive into the heartwarming tale of how I came to be known as the "Kink Doula", offering healing and sensation rediscovery, after an epiphany during an Urban Tantra event in...

I'm here at the Birmingham Bizarre Bazaar in yet another lecture—this time about taboo play. What does "taboo" even mean? How can we discover our limits—and those of our partners? How can exploring what scares or unsettles us help us learn about ourselves? Listen to this episode for all this and more.     Massive thanks to my Patrons for making this show possible! 💜 Join them here to support my work.   VIP Dope Ass Mofo! Healthy Life Supastar Ride-Or-Die! Elizabeth Scott Shimmering In The...

In today's episode, we're embarking on part 2 of my third lecture in my riveting lecture series, "Shy Freaks: BDSM for the Introvert." So, buckle up as we continue our deep dive into the intimate world of introverts in BDSM. Make sure to listen to part 1! Join me in redefining the narrative around our social anxieties, shifting from fear to self-awareness, and celebrating the beauty of our authentic selves in the journey of love and acceptance.   *********************   Massive thanks to my...

In today's episode, we're embarking on part 1 of my third lecture in my riveting lecture series, "Shy Freaks: BDSM for the Introvert." So, buckle up as we continue our deep dive into the intimate world of introverts in BDSM. Join me in redefining the narrative around our social anxieties, shifting from fear to self-awareness, and celebrating the beauty of our authentic selves in the journey of love and acceptance.   ***************   Massive thanks to my Patrons for making this show possible!...

Welcome back! In today's episode, we're embarking on part two of the riveting lecture series, "Shy Freaks: BDSM for the Introvert." So, buckle up as we continue our deep dive into the intimate world of introverts in BDSM. Make sure to listen to part 1! Join me in redefining the narrative around our social anxieties, shifting from fear to self-awareness, and celebrating the beauty of our authentic selves in the journey of love and acceptance.   Massive thanks to my Patrons for making this...

In today's episode, we're diving into the first part of one such lecture, called "Shy Freaks: BDSM for the Introvert." Ready to join the ride with me? Let's get started! Join me in redefining the narrative around our social anxieties, shifting from fear to self-awareness, and celebrating the beauty of our authentic selves in the journey of love and acceptance.   Massive thanks to my Patrons for making this show possible! 💜 Join them here to support my work.   VIP Dope Ass Mofo! Healthy...

On today’s episode, join me, Mollena Lee Williams-Haas, and my friend Rebecca Lowrie, a “sexual alchemist” helping successful, spiritually curious men to explore and embrace their full, true selves through conscious sexuality. We begin by discussing how our perception of time changes as we age, leading to a conversation about personal growth and the importance of stability during periods of significant change. I share my journey towards starting my own consulting business and my new venture,...

Have you ever wondered what happens when cultural differences, sexual liberation, and a daring sense of adventure collide? In this second part of this double-header episode, I take you on a journey through my explorations in the diverse world of BDSM. From the bustling streets of New York to the serene settings of Vienna, I've come across compelling stories that underscore the necessity of diversity and inclusivity within our spaces. Our conversation today delves into a class I taught on edge...

Ever wondered what it's like to teach sexuality classes in Vienna, or to embrace your authentic sexual self amidst societal judgments? Recorded while touring Europe with my Spousemeister Georg Friedrich Haas, I share my recent lecture at the Vienna Art Institute, where I was invited to share on topics around sex, alternative sexuality, race, and gender issues. We'll dive into my upbringing, my first exposure to alternative sexuality, and the crucial role consent has played in my...

How do we maintain resilience and stay upright when life's a whirlwind, and we're Daffy Duck with his little legs twirling around? Well, I'm not entirely sure, but I'm in it with you, and today we'll commiserate together. This past fortnight has been a whirlwind, and honestly, I'm barely hanging in there. I don't have the energy to pull together a typical deep-dive discussion, so I've asked my amazing producer, Cody, to dig into our vaults and air a past episode. See you soon ~ 💜...

Ever wondered what it's like traveling the world as an artistic couple? The adventure, the hiccups, and the hilarity of it all? In this episode, I, and my beloved Spousemeister, delve into our recent travel experiences. From the bustle of Budapest and Vienna, dealing with unexpected dilemmas, to losing some of our belongings – the journey has been full of surprises. We explore the cultural and historical tapestry of Prague, share our experiences of being a dynamic couple in the arts scene,...

Can you imagine holding onto a pebble of pain, rubbing it smooth over years, like a worry stone? In today's episode, we dive deep into the uncharted territory of emotional pain—how we deal with it, why we hold onto it, and how we might begin to let it go. I share some personal experiences around this topic, from the lingering pain of unresolved family issues to my spouse's past, and how it all intersects with my own hypervigilance and perpetual anxiety. I reflect on the value of having...

Have you ever caught yourself in a spiral of self-criticism and negativity? That's where I found myself in this episode, battling with the guilt of missed work commitments and the exhaustion in the aftermath of COVID-19. In this deeply personal reflection, I talk about my struggle with high expectations for myself, my battle with emotional perfectionism since childhood, and how I've grappled with the fear of disappointing others. It's been a tough journey, but I've had some pretty amazing...

Can pain actually bring relief? Join me as we delve into the world of kink, self-discovery, and the surprising ways our physical and mental well-being can intersect. In this episode, I share my experience attending an opera adaptation of Octavia Butler's "Parable of the Sower," my journey with COVID-19, and how it unexpectedly impacted my anxiety. We'll also explore my personal adventures in the realms of kink and BDSM, and discuss how our preferences can change over time. Links and...

Mo is sick! She has been stricken with the dreaded COVID—and she has asked me, her very intelligent producer, to air and old episode, so here's one of my favorites. Send her your best wishes and hopefully she's feeling better very soon! 💜 *** Saying I was a child star already gets me some looks and side-eyed glances. In all reality, my experiences weren't all bad—I had some absolutely insane opportunities, like meeting the likes of Diana Ross and Patti LaBelle. However, as you may expect,...

Have you ever felt the need for guidance and support while exploring the world of kink? 💭 In this episode, I open up about my recent breast health scare and the launch of my new website, kinkdoula.com. From my early days as an assistant teacher to helping others navigate the realms of kink, BDSM, and Leather communities, my passion for teaching and guiding others has never wavered. We'll talk about my experiences, the concept of being a "kink doula", and the exciting retreats and classes I...

In today's episode, the second of our series, I share my keynote speech from a recent leather conference. I discuss the evolving inclusivity and diversity within the leather community and my personal journey as a woman of color. Join me as we dive into the heart of the leather event, exploring the progress made and the importance of representation. **** SUPERSTAR MOFOS: Liz Scott Terri Lahmon J Starr Anna T Biddle Christopher Brown Amy Willaert James R Potyraj Marshall Flax Haddayr...