“Part of the reason why we were able to make friends so easily as kids is [for example] because we’re using the same color crayon and we’re sharing it and that’s something we have in common or we both like recess and that’s a common view, but as we develop and become more complex and start really having our own views and opinions, we start to sort of narrow in on who our tribe is. And the people that we vibe with gets smaller and I don’t think that’s inherently bad... but you can always add new friends”