What I'm talkin' about is, just because you marry someone doesn’t mean they’re the one. It doesn’t mean the relationship is gonna last forever... Forever is an illusion. And just cuz you get married doesn’t mean you can’t have fun. Or be attracted to other humans. After all, we are all human. But marriage is like walking into a prison if you ask me because you’ve tied yourself and them in a knot, and now you’ve become one with someone, which blocks you off from yourself. So now instead of being free to be who you really are, you're tied down. And some people like that. They like not having to be alone. They like not having control cause then it means they don’t have to try so hard to become who they really are. So marriage is for people who aren’t free if you ask me. Marriage makes people think they need someone to make them feel happy. They think they need a knot so happiness never leaves. So this person will always be there with me no matter what the situation. Till death do us part. But I just think that way of thinking is sooo f****d up... People change. We grow... Sometimes we grow apart. Sometimes we grow together. So to make something so official is like lying to yourself. And relying on someone else to be your source of happiness will never work out. And I’m not crazy for thinking this way... The evidence is there if you really peek behind the veil and see how many marriages fail around 5 years... And I just think it’s because tying the knot doesn’t really feel like Love once the knot is all tied up. So it’s clear... Marriage doesn’t really make the world a better place. It doesn’t make love more real. It makes it fake. And in most cases, it makes love leave. So why do humans still participate in this strange way of doing things? Oh, I know. It makes them feel like they’ve achieved a goal. It makes them feel like they're part of a social norm. Like they found someone they can use to conform to an ideology that slowly depletes the Soul. And most people don’t realize it’s happening until they get in it. And then when they get in it and they feel the resistance it starts to feel like a prison, and that’s when the Monster reacts with attacks. That’s why lovers have spats and that leads to domestic abuse, all because they can’t cut the noose... That’s why they act out and do things that don’t feel good. That’s why they stop having sex and that intimate connection. That’s why they look for ways to escape the need to always be part of the family. So that’s why someone is always away. Or working long hours every day. Or spending time by the slot machines, gambling the money away. So needless to say, marriage is good for businesses like counselors and drug dealers and liquor stores, and places you can buy things, like shopping malls and food courts, because people who feel trapped have a place to go to fill their voids by buying things that help them feel good for a short period of time. For a short period of time. For a short period of time. And that’s how they end up in debts. That’s how they end up cheating and having random sex. And that’s how the lies and betrayal start to add up and break the hearts of the one they said they’d love. That’s how the lies and betrayal start to add up and break the hearts of the one they said they’d love. They said they’d always love. They said till death do us part. They said through sickness and in health... And thus, what was once a loving relationship becomes a living nightmare and it’s hard to wake up. To get out. People get afraid of the shame. They care too much about what their family will say. After all, marriage should be worked on and you should stay even if you’re not happy. Even if they be cray-cray. But that’s the way we’ve been conditioned to t