Welcome to the bed hopper podcast. Over the past few months we've been talking about a shift in our dynamic. Mrs H is much more interested in women - but that's made making new connections much more complicated. So, we do what we do best and sit down and have an honest conversation about what's going on and how we might tackle it. We explore some options, talk about how we're feeling and think through our recent conversations with friends (check out the patreon for a special on that). And to...

In this thrilling edition we talk about the Swinghub PJ party and find out why Mrs H had to hunt high and low for Mr H. We delve in to the Swindon Social - and touch on how we could get more from going to events and the like. We announce that we're going to SpicyIsland and talk about what that's gonna be like too. Thanks for downloading our podcast! Handy links Find out about the amazing SpicyIsland event here: https://www.spicymatch.com/events/41110/?edc=Libertine  Don't forget to use code...

In this episode we talk about the Black and White Ball, which we hosted with the Lovely Cate from Wanderlust Swingers. We go behind the scenes to talk about how the event went, run through what it's like being a host and also cover some of the sexy times we had during the weekend. Mrs H struggles to tell a sexy story and we delve into why that might be the case.  Thanks for hopping into our podcast. Handy links Send Mrs H your phrase at [email protected]  Join our Patreon at...

In this episode we share an update on what's been going on in our lives lately. We talk about the support we've had from friends in the lifestyle and why things haven't been easy. But don't worry - it's not all doom and gloom - we quickly move onto some lifestyle adjacent TV (think Game of Keys and Couple to Throuple) and then ask Mrs H about what's happening with her solo date!  Thanks for hopping into our podcast! Handy links Join our Patreon here: https://www.patreon.com/bedhoppersuk  You...

In this episode Mr H catches up with the marvellous Secret Stag for a chat about life, the universe and everything. From hotwifing and taking Secret vixen out on a date - all the way through to top tips for men - this one covers a wide range of random fun topics. Does Secret Stag enjoy the limelight? Will we be tempted by the one ring? How many pop culture references can we fit in one sitting? Find out all of this and more today! Thanks for hopping in to our podcast! Handy links UPDATE: We...

After taking time out to interview the lovely Secret Vixen in our last episode, Mrs H turns the tables on Secret Stag and interviews him one on one. They delve deeper into the world of hotwifing, cuckolding and stag and vixen dynamics. They explore just what makes Secret Stag tick and what drives his desires. If you've ever thought about being a stag (or cuck) this might just be the episode for you.  Handy links UPDATE: We have an extremely limited amount of club only tickets left for our...

In this episode Mrs H goes solo with Secret Vixen for some one on one time and a great conversation. They explore the world of hot wives, what makes SV tick and what she's looking for in a hot date. Mr H and Secret Stag stay out of it for the benefit of all listeners! Download now for a fabulous convo with fabulous ladies. Thanks for hopping into our bed.   Handy links Find Secret Vixen on X/Twitter: https://twitter.com/secret_vixen1 Check out her blog: https://secretvixen.blog/ Find Secret...

In this episode we take to X (or Twitter, for the old school) to get some listener questions. We cover a fair few topics including our hard red-lines, how to escalate and if we've ever lost friends in the lifestyle. Don't forget, if you'd like to send us a question, hit us up at [email protected] Thanks for hopping into our bed! Links and stuff Special thanks to the following for submitting a question on our live...

Hoppy new year! We hope you had a great one and have started the year with a bang! This episode is all about our New Years Eve trip to Xstasia (near Birmingham). We cover what it's like returning to the club (we were last there pre-pandemic), some of the amusing stories and a little bit of the sexy times that we had on the night. We also talk about Mr H's birthday (thanks for all of the well wishes) and some of the drama we've been dealing with since the end of December. It's a fun filled...

In this episode we follow up on our chat about separate dating - and Mr H goes on a solo play adventure. We talk about how this came about, what happened, how we're feeling and what it might mean for the future. Mrs H reveals what she got up to - and Mr H gives the deets of his sexy story. Would we do it again? You'll just have to listen to find out! Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Want to come to our Southampton Social on 27 January? Send us an email ([email protected]) or...

This episode is part two (of a two part podcast). The first one is on the Wanderlust Swingers show (https://twitter.com/SwingDownUnder) and is called UK Swingers Hotel Takeover. We chill out with Cate from Wanderlust Swingers and talk about the Winter Wonderland event - our joint event which was the largest swinging hotel takeover that's ever happened in the UK (what a mouthful). We go behind the scenes, talk about our highlights, some of the feedback and how it all went down. Find out more...

Thanks for downloading our podcast. We take time out to follow up on a discussion we'd started in Miami. For some context, in Florida Mrs H missed out on the opportunity to play with some ladies/one particular lady. This, linked in with some observed changes to our approach, has prompted some discussion about separate play. So, we lay it all out on the table and talk about why this might be a thing, how we're feeling about it and what it could change for our relationship. Hope you find it a...

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about our recent adventure to Florida and how Miami Podcast-A-Palooza (PCAP) went for us. We cover what it was like at the event, what we got up to and our thoughts on returning. There's some theme park talk and a little bit of naughty too - something for everyone!  Handy links Find out more about about PCAP and other Libertine events here: https://libertineevents.com/

In this episode we speak to the lovely Olivia and Gage about Swinghub (their new lifestyle dating app), appearances on TV (including Open House) and also explore how they met and what they do with their spare time! We have some fun along the way, chat about our shared TV experiences and find out much more about them too!  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Find out about SwingHub: https://www.swinghub.com/ https://twitter.com/SwingHub Check out...

In this episode we have a chat about some upcoming events and talk through our approach. What are our expectations, some of our rules and boundaries - and how are we going to make the best of our experience. Take a listen to find out how we prep for events - and have some honest conversations about how we think it might go! Thanks for hopping into our bed!   Handy links Come to our Winter Wonderland event: https://www.swingingdownunder.com/london-swingers/  

In this episode we have a quick catch-up on Mrs H's birthday and then dive right in to the topic of the day - our visit to Swindon Swingers Club. We give you the basics on how it works, what it's like and try to remember the layout off the top of our heads. It's a handy guide if you're planning to visit for the first time! We also cover a little bit about how we're feeling when visiting clubs and how we're a little out of practice. Special thanks to the Swindon team for being so...

Thanks for downloading our show! In this episode we answer some listener questions - from making a great first impression and recovering from an illness - all the way through to an exploration of masturbation (thanks for that one, Mrs H!). We also announce our brand new event (Winter Wonderland) that we're hosting with the amazing Wanderlust Swingers. We offer an update on our home lives and talk a little about what's to come! Thanks for hopping into our bed!   Come to our Winter Wonderland...

Thanks for downloading our podcast. In this episode we talk about some of the sexy times we had on our Going Dutch adventure. From six in a tiny room to a show for two - this one has it all. We cover the naughty times but also deep dive into a something of a hiccup on the Sunday afternoon. We talk about losing yourself in the moment and how much you give to your play partners - and we wonder how much hanger plays into our play experience. Get in touch and tell us about how you handle losing...

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about our Going Dutch event with the Wanderlust Swingers. We cover the basics on the trip and explore the two clubs that we visited - Fata Morgana and Fun4Two. We compare the two and reveal our favourite - handy if you're heading to Amsterdam and the like. Do get in touch if you've been to either club or have some other recommendations.  Handy links Our site - https://www.bedhoppers.co.uk/ Fun4Two -...

Thanks for taking a look at our podcast. In this episode we talk about our Hot Summer Nights event at Penthouse Playrooms (co-hosted with the Wanderlust Swingers) and how it went for us and for special guests HiscockHertail (LV and VI). We cover what's been going on at home and the lead up to the event - along with a few spicy details about the night.    Special thanks go to... Cate and Darrell for co-hosting with us and helping to make the event extra awesome Penthouse Playrooms for having...

Thanks for downloading our show. In this episode we answer popular listener question - what are our favourite clubs in the UK? So, we talk about our top three and explore just why we'd recommend them, the good, the bad and the ugly. Well, mostly the good - we're pretty positive. Thanks for hopping into our bed!   Handy links The Vanilla Alternative: https://va2.co.uk/ Le Boudoir: https://leboudoir.club/sessions/new Penthouse Playrooms: https://www.penthouseplayrooms.com/

Thanks for picking our podcast! In this episode we talk about our worst experience ever. We delve into some of the meets that have gone wrong and then into a situation that we'd never want to repeat. We explore a weekend break from several years back that we've never discussed on the podcast before. Trigger warning - it includes a hospital trip and a seizure - so please keep that in mind as you listen. Handy links Come to our Hot Summer Night event here:...

Thanks for downloading our podcast! In this episode we talk about a rather exciting weekend. From bottomless drinks and hosting friends all the way through to our social event and a very sexy threesome. Sounds like a great weekend to us. Secret kisses and sleepy hand jobs too! We also talk about attending a rather lovely social event in Oxford. Apologies in advance for Mr H's voice - I'm sorry, I have a cold!  Handy links Join our Hot Summer Nights event here:...

Thanks for downloading our podcast. This one is a chat between us - we decided to ask each other some questions that we think everyone might benefit from. So, consider this a lifestyle and relationship check-in. The questions are... 1. Why are we doing this? 2. Are we having fun? 3. What does the future look like? 4. How are we staying connected? 5. Is there anything you'd like to tell me? We run through the questions and come up with some (perhaps) surprising answers. Hope you enjoy it - do...