Tom Staples was an ex-Marine and police officer with 20 years service. When you picture a police officer, Tom would be the type of person you think of - strong, dependable, steady. Yet on Thursday 2nd May 2019, with his two young sons playing downstairs, Tom went up to his bedroom and took his own life. No red flags. No warnings. In this episode you'll hear from his wife JoAnna, about the life they shared, the moment she found him and her life since. In this episode you will: Understand that not every suicide is preceded by observable behaviour or warning signs Hear more about the pressure on first responders to constantly appear strong and in control Learn about the impact of becoming a suicide survivor had on JoAnna and her family. Understand more about how those left behind by suicide can feel the need to take on responsibility for the emotions of those around them.