Episodes
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by casting agent Mike Rose (@MikeRoseLA) giving you the tips and tricks to make it on TV. How do you audition? What are casting directors looking for? If someone in a position of power makes a move on you for a gig what do you do?! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support
Published 03/13/23
Published 03/13/23
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by drag artists Britney Banks (@thebritneybanks) & Justine Van De Blair (@justinequeenqueen) to share everything that is going on with the new legislation that just passed in Tennessee. Jeff explains what you can expect in this new "Gays in the Wild" journey!  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/gaysinthewild/support
Published 03/06/23
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Netflix's Love Is Blind star Nancy Rodriguez (@thenancyrodriguez) to share their most recent relationship highs, lows, and what ultimately led to their breakups. Nancy shares why her and Bartise were never meant to be (5:02) Jeff asks Nancy the most inappropriate question (22:20) Jeff dives in the why him and Alex ended (25:30)! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- Support this podcast:...
Published 02/27/23
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by life coach Alex Alberti (@albertidevelopment) to talk about the joys and sorrows of turning 30? Why is turning 30 known as gay death? Learn how to age like a bad b*tch! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You can follow Alex Here --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/behindthebum/support
Published 10/04/22
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined his streaming bestie Connor Shennan (@ShennanConnor) to laugh about their experiences on a dating show. Do you think you can force a relationship? Have you ever felt f****d up that you knew someone liked you and they were a good fit for you but you just couldn't get there? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You can follow Connor Here --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. ...
Published 09/26/22
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) is joined by Devon Rouse (@Devon__Rouse) to share what it's like being the first Nascar driver to come out in 20 years!. Devon opens up about what his coming out journey has been like & how the Nascar community has responded. Did coming out effect his career? How many closet cases are in the Nascar community? Who just got an anal fissure?... Oh just kidding... Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You can follow Devon...
Published 09/19/22
Jeff Perla (@Jeffperlaa) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp) are joined by Ophira Edut (@Astrotwins) to discuss their birth charts. Ophi is an Astrologer for Elle Magazine as well as one of the masterminds behind Amazon Prime Video's latest show Cosmic Love. Are the stars aligned for Jeff & Alex? What zodiac signs make the best matches? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You guys can follow the Astro Twins Here & be sure to stream Cosmic Love on...
Published 09/14/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Gonzalo Aburto de la Fuente (@Gonzalo_Aburto) from 'Uncoupled' now streaming on Netflix. Gonzalo shares his experiences on set working with Darren Star & NPH. How difficult has it been immigrating to the US from Mexico City? Jeff & Gonzalo give some life advice to 2 guys navigating  a bump in their relationships. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You guys can follow Gonzalo Here & be sure to stream Uncoupled on...
Published 09/05/22
Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Anthony Wright (@Antsinyapantzz) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys dive deep into each cast member, their relationships, and what really went down at the pool party. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You guys can follow Anthony Here & be sure to stream The One That Got Away now on Prime Video! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a...
Published 08/01/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Alex Van Gurp (@AlexVanGurp) to discuss their relationship pending the show. You all submitted questions you wanted to know. What was it like transitioning back into the real world? When did we tell our friends? What was it like filming the bedroom scene on camera? The second half of this podcast Jeff is joined by Gabe, (@GabrielBoyers) to share his experience battling Monkey Pox. What does Gabe wish he knew prior to getting it? What's it feel like? The boys discuss...
Published 07/25/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Joe Santini (@SavageSantini) travel host for nomads. Joe explains how so many gays have found time to travel and yet make a living. Is there a difference between your relationship standards and your hookup standards? Is it weird to use Grindr to network? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You can follow Joe Here --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. ...
Published 07/18/22
Jeff Perla is joined by fellow cast-mate Dylan Palladino (@DylanJpalladino) from The One That Got Away, now streaming on Prime Video. The boys reminisce on their experience filming the show and answer on going questions. Does Dylan's BDE match the reality? Who stirred the pot the most in the house? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You guys can follow Dylan Here & be sure to stream The One That Got Away now on Prime Video! --- This episode...
Published 07/04/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Kyle Langan (@kylejlangan) author & social media consultant. The boys share their own experiences through the narrative of Kyle's new book "Confessions Of A Call Boy". This fictional novel explores the life of a call boy and his journey with self acceptance, self identity, suicide, sex work all wrapped into a murder plot. Hear the boys answers as they share some personal information and insight into their lives. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this...
Published 05/23/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Josh Van Sant (@JoshVanSant) "an older gay" who is notorious for offering advice to younger gays. Most famously for his videos on TikTok, the 2 get personal on what they think they need to work on about themselves and what they think they've got all figured out. What are your top 3 attributes you're seeking in a partner? If any of those are physical, you'll be in an unhappy relationship. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! You...
Published 04/25/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Vlad Radoi (@RadoiVlad) a Biochemist with a PHD in Medical Science. The boys discuss how your sex drive works and the difference between your libido and hormones. Just because your testosterone levels decrease does that mean your sex drive should decrease? Well guess again. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/behindthebum/support
Published 04/18/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Elliott Norris (@Elliottnorris) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp), sharing their heights and experiences with taller or shorter men. Does height matter? The boys have been in Curacao for one week. Hear about the trip, our peak and pits, and all the drama in between! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast:...
Published 03/28/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Rob Pugliese (@SouthTampaBob) & David Rumsey (@MusgraveMTNMan),2 men over the age of 60 sharing their life experiences in the gay community! What was it like coming out in the 80's? What does "Side mean"? Want to gain some great life advice as to why you shouldn't spend your time "checking a box"? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. ...
Published 03/14/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Tiger Redz (@Tiger.Redz), a femme creator sharing their opinions on toxic masculinity! Is there a difference between internalized homophobia and toxic masculinity? What are the traits of a toxic male? How many of them do these 2 have? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast:...
Published 03/07/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Pedro (@_________pedro________) to play a game sharing their wild stories abroad! Pedro is studying to be a urologist so the conversations naturally revolved around... well ya know, dicks. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/behindthebum/support
Published 02/28/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry) to reminisce on their sugar daddies! What is the worst situation they've put themselves in with a daddy? How did Christian start on Twitter? What is the most awkward sex video to film of yourself? We talked about a lot more than we cared to share on this but hope you enjoy! If you want to follow Christian @ChristianTBerry on Instagram or @Seateabe  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. ...
Published 02/14/22
Jeff Perla is joined by Daniel (@NKD_Dan) to laugh about the odd requests they've been receiving? What would you send out for money? What is something that just no amount of money can get? Who sent out their c*m rag for $200? Oh god... Enjoy If you want to follow Dan @NKD_Dan --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/behindthebum/support
Published 02/07/22
Jeff's back with his good friend Josh Oram (@ooshj) to catch you up on everything you missed? Why was the account disabled? What is The Travelin Bum allowed to post? Do you think "meta" is homophobic? There's a lot to unbox here so we hope this insight into Jeff's life the past month helps answer any of your pondering questions.  If you want to follow Josh @ooshj --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast:...
Published 01/31/22
Sebastian (@BashDeltas) joins Jeff Perla (@JeffPerlaa) to talk about what it's like going back to the place you grew up for the holidays. What do you do when you see a family member you don't get along with? Is it normal to get anxious going back home. Why is it so common to leave home and move to a big city? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow Bash here --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. ...
Published 11/15/21
I'm sure you're all sick of our Puerto Rico content by now, yet here is our recap. Come join Elliot (@ElliottNorris), Spencer (@HoddSuspenders), Barry (@BarryBartlett_) and I (@JeffPerlaa) as we share our peak and pit, first impressions of one another, and all the inappropriate juicy questions you guys asked. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! If you're planning a trip to Puerto Rico in the near future. I suggest Coqui Del Mar in San Juan as well as...
Published 11/01/21