The ladies begin this episode talking about toxic work environments and their experiences as black women. Which leads to the need for black women to turn off the "survival mode" switch. How can we learn to approach one another in peace?  BWH also talks about learning to think outside of the box as an entrepreneur. Not long after, the opening to the "rabbit hole" widens, and the ladies discuss various facades that the United States Government uses to keep people sleep. Help us better serve...

Are you at the stage in your life where you have checked some goals off your list, but now you feel you're ready to go to the next level? If so, you'll want to tune in to this episode. The ladies discuss where they currently stand with fulfilling short and long-term goals, the importance of raising your vibrational frequency to manifest and attract the life you desire.  We can't go through life alone, nor can we achieve specific goals without the help and experience of others. Help us...

With the online world's influence over everyday people, it's becoming increasingly difficult to maintain privacy in a world full of over-sharers. What we know to be normal was once inconceivable and unheard of.  How far is too far when sharing your life online? How do we build safe spaces when censoring notable public figures from the black and brown community is society's way of controlling us?  In this episode, the ladies discuss censorship, oversharing online, and how to protect our...

Unfortunately, we are in the age of technology, and because of this, it's becoming increasingly difficult to get grounded spiritually. In this episode, the ladies discuss being in alignment with your spiritual and highest self.  The ladies also share how they know when to "tap out" of societal distractions. Some of those spiritual red flags discussed are anxiety, impulsiveness, and being easily irritated. Living in a world that wants you to feed into their continual shit show makes being a...

In this episode, the ladies discuss what the current dating market looks like for black women. They also discuss if black women have an entitlement issue and expect black men to chase them. Time Stamps: 00:01:42- A critique of Kevin Samuels' platform. 00:05:51- Do black men prefer women with lesser career goals or money? 00:10:41- Are black women uncomfortable with chasing/competing to win a man's affections? 00:22:11- A man focused on his purpose. Help us better serve you by taking...

Help us better serve you by taking our show survey. We promise it won't take more than five minutes! We appreciate you, family, Tap here Have you ever found yourself in love with a man with mommy issues? The signs and red flags were there, but you pursued the relationship anyway. In this episode, the ladies discuss navigating a relationship with an unhealed man with mommy issues. They also delve into some of the causes of why these men are toxic. For example, men who were abandoned and...

Help us better serve you by taking our show survey, we promise it won't take more than five minutes! We appreciate you family Tap here In this episode, the ladies discuss common causes for intimate disconnect, communicating your sexual desires, and maintaining them.  Restoring intimacy with your partner can be a difficult discussion, but it's a necessary one. It's often a taboo topic for many and an overlooked area that creates a healthy sex life. The need for emotional, mental,...

You know how it is family; you meet someone, have a lot in common with this person, the two of you are having a blast, and then something triggers your red flag signals. You begin to see the signs you missed, and the veil is lifted. You feel like a fool and search for ways to disconnect from this person and cut the soul tie. Realizing they were sent as a lesson and the romantic relationship should have been severed many months or years ago.  Audio Time Stamps:  00:00:00- Intro 00:01:48-...

Have you ever been told by parents and loved ones: girl you can't do that, people will think you're ghetto and have no home training! Black girls and boys spend their childhood learning how to behave and speak in public, school, work, and predominantly white spaces. As if who we are is tainted and not good enough. The history of America and its Black people is filled with images of promiscuous and angry Black women. For many of us, a few lessons on how NOT to be what the media portrays us...

Are you in a place spiritually where everything is okay on the surface level but, you're having difficulty tuning in spiritually? Yeah, us too! In this episode, the ladies discuss how it feels to not feel connected to God/Source/Universe for a short period or sometimes a long timeframe. What it's like when you feel like you can't tap into your spiritual gifts and you aren't receiving any messages from the other side. How they have and are currently getting through this period, imparting...

What's the first thing that comes to you when you read/hear the phrase: mind f**k me? Is it the idea of a love interest seducing you through intellectual conversation? If you're tired of the club scene and local bar, you can attest to the yearning of wanting to deeply connect with a love interest. If you're married or in a long-term relationship, you were probably drawn to your partner because they bared all intellectually. In this episode, the ladies discuss experiences with former...

In this episode of BWH-Two Cents,  The ladies read and respond to TWO letters from listener-family whose identity we'll keep anonymous. In the first letter, a niece has a strenuous relationship with her dad and asks the question, how do you know when to cut off your parent or a loved one? What do I do? Do I wait for change and keep going through this toxic cycle? Or do I do what's best for me?  The second letter is about a woman who recently dated an emotionally unavailable man for a...

Men have started asking women, what do you bring to the table? And it seems, everyone is in an uproar about it. In this episode, the ladies ask: do modern hetero women care what men think or expect of them or, are they entitled and demand men to accept them with their toxic flaws and all? They also discuss ways women can prepare to be a wife, commit to a long-term partnership, and do better if already married. The bottom line is, heterosexual men, do not place degrees and earnings of a...

Do you have a strenuous relationship with your father? Are there unanswered questions of the past that could potentially help you heal your daddy issues? In this episode, the ladies discuss what it's like to have a broken or nonexistent bond with their dads. Also, what it's like to grow up with a father at home. Many factors come into play of what causes these connections to be dysfunctional or arduous. Sometimes our mothers are partially to blame. In other instances, a father simply lacks...

The ladies read and respond to a letter from a listener-friend who is in a three-year relationship with a man that ghosts her when things don't go his way. She also states that she caught him on multiple online dating sights, too many to count.  *The ladies of BWH are not licensed, mental health therapists or counselors.* Ways to support the show: -Follow on IG and tag to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode! -Leave a five-star rating and review the show in Apple...

The ladies read and respond to a letter from a niece whose husband calls her racial slurs during sex. A kinky fetish she never consented to. She states in the letter that she is still in love with her husband, despite this issue. Niece does not want to divorce her husband. She asks the question: "how can I get him to stop with the racial slurs so that I can win back my sexual attraction to my husband, and ultimately our sex life?" *The ladies of BWH are not licensed, mental health...

Are you single and wondering how you will handle finances in a relationship or marriage? Are you the financial saver in your relationship, but your partner likes to spend? Do you and your spouse keep your finances separate? Do you maintain a "rainy day" fund? If you said yes to any of the above, then this episode will surely resonate. The Aunties discuss one of the top reasons couples divorce in America, finances. They delve into ways single people that live with their partner can manage...

Have you ever caught your partner socializing inappropriately, do you use social media as a tool to meet new people and date, or linked up with an old boo? In this episode, the Aunties discuss the days of MySpace and Black Planet, when things were still simple and we were less emotionally attached to the online world. Their experiences with people approaching them to date online. They also discuss simple and effective ways to conduct yourself online when you're married, single, or in a...

In this episode of BWH-Two Cents,  The ladies read and respond to a letter from a niece whose identity we'll keep anonymous. She states in the letter that she is 26, currently finishing her associate's degree, and will pursue her bachelor's immediately. Niece wants to know if she should be dating while completing her education, starting a new job, and saving for a new vehicle??? *The ladies of BWH are not licensed, mental health therapists or...

Is happiness really an inside job y'all? In this episode, the ladies decipher the differences between happiness and joy, the definition, causes, and how to obtain true joy and fulfillment in your life.  Bible verse mentioned: Acts 7:48-50 King James  Acts 7:48-50 NIV The definition of Joy and Happiness were sourced from: 1.) Psychology Today 2.)Diffen ______________________________________________________________________________________________  Ways to Support the...

In this episode of BWH-Two Cents,  the ladies read and respond to a letter from a nephew who states that he and his girlfriend have been together for a year and a half. His girlfriend hasn't been in the presence of his parents in a year because of experiences she's had at their house in the past. Nephew is a very family-oriented person and was raised this way. His relationship with his family is stressed and drained due to them not getting along with his girlfriend. Nephew asks the...

Do you feel overwhelmed by your goals and family life? Do you often wonder, can I really have it all? Are you are a crossroads and wondering if you should focus on becoming an entrepreneur or settling down first? Is it healthy for a mother and wife to spend a ton of time away from home because of work or business? Are demanding entrepreneurial goals really worth it if you have a family? The ladies of BWH answer these questions and so much more, a fire-ass episode you do not want to miss!!!...

In this episode of "BWH-Two Cents," the ladies read and respond to a letter from a niece whose identity we'll keep anonymous. She states in the letter that she was dating a man whom mutual friends "hooked her up with." They were exclusive but not official and, everything was going perfectly.  UNTIL niece links up with an old friend. The new love interest finds out about it and calls it quits without hesitation. She has been trying to get back in his good graces, but nothing is working....

Do you feel like you've been hitting your head on the wall when it comes to your spouse or partner? You've tried everything in your power to help them reach their full potential or correct the flaws that stand out to you, but nothing seems to work? What will you do if your partner never changes, will you stay?   In this episode, your girls share why they believe women have adapted to the "I can fix a man" syndrome, why modern-day women see potential in a man first and not for who he is,...