We have an in-depth conversation with porn producer, performer, coach, kinkster, a multifaceted businesswoman, a mother of three, a clinical mental health therapist, gerontologist, adult film star and all-round awesome person "Jet Setting Jasmine".We talk about a multiple subjects that are near and dear not just to the black BDSM community, but everybody in alternative lifestyle like swingers, poly or kinksters. Generational trauma:Black people have been mentally and physically abused...

A while ago, we worked with Analisa Murphy who did a scientific study to better understand the effects of non-monogamy (or any kind of open relationship) on relationships and sexual satisfaction. This is now completed, so it was time for an interview to chat about the learnings. She also explains her personal journey into swinging, from getting married at an early age to leaving the Mormon religion and the impact this has on her life, her kids and her sexuality. We talk...

We gave the our roaming reporters (the Mr. and Mrs. Puppy) the microphones and let them run amok during Folsom Street Faire in San Francisco. They talk to people on a range of subjects:   Whips, choosing floggers, pony play, "puppy play" and a whole bunch of kink. Contact us and let us know where you will be during the next Folsom!    

The gang debriefs from Naughty in Nawlins and Mr. Puppy gives advise on how to behave on swinger dating sites.  How to create a profile, how to respond. If you have any questions you would like to hear answered, just ask.  

Part 2 of our Naughty in Nawlins visit: We interviewed Organic Loven and a bunch of visitors, each with their own vision on swinging, kink and sexuality, and close it up by dragging the couple from "Ecstatic Hearts" into our bed for interview on tantra, sacred sexuality, and improving and extending your orgasms thru specific techniques and vocalisations. Want to join in the fun at NiN?  Make sure to grab your room before they sell out!  

During Naughty in Nawlins 2017 (one of the largest swingers events, in New Orleans), misses Puppy and Jon ran into our instructor for the "erotic wrestling" class.   She turned out to very cute, great a giving lapdances and an all-round awesome person.  We sat down and chatted about kink, polyamory, bi-sexuality, penis size, wrestling, stripping (including "pole burn") and porn. Andre Shakti is a journalist, educator, performer, activist, and professional slut living in the San Francisco Bay...

Rev. Jon and Mrs. Puppy run the dungeon at Tangerine's Dream together where they broaden the spectrum of kink for fans, newbies,  and curious onlookers.  Mrs. Puppy tries her hand as a top under the expert direction of Rev Jon.  They had a busy and fun night working as a team to bring bliss to the line of willing victims.  They meet super fans Mr. and Mrs. Chill where they provide Mrs. Chill with a little taste of their brand of kink. They later decide to expand on their experience with a...

SinD, Reverend Jon, Bill and Alice hang out together in this post-action debrief bedcast.  It was Alice's first visit to a BDSM dungeon (we took her to "Dragon's Gate" in Los Angeles), where she got tied up and suspended, and had all sorts of things done to her.    We give our updates and review our progress in the lifestyles of BDSM, Swinging and polyamory.   Quick note: We are going to "Nawty in New Orleans"!   There are a few rooms left, so if you want to party with us and a few thousand...

Mr. and Mrs. Puppy visit "the armory", the infamous porn-studio that is home of "the upper floor".  These are their adventures.

Mister Bill, Jon and SinD first debrief about  Fetish and Fantasy event, then about their various polyamorous and swinging relationships.   Bill does an inventory of his relationships and reviews how they are similar but different. Jon interviews a brand-new member of the "Dragon's Gate" gang, who at her young age has dived deep into kink and her various turn-ons. Back home, the newly formed poly gang (SinD, Jon, Night owl) debriefs about the changes in their relationship. This episode is...

Exploring polyamory, BDSM and kink in the swinging lifestyle. We catch up with Mr. and Misses Puppy (see previous episodes for background).  The first interview is right after a hotel playdate with Mr, Misses Puppy, and L  a.k.a. "Mr. Puppy's new toy". In second part,  debrief with "Nightowl", the poor massage therapist (and general fun kinky guy) that SinD corrupted. We go over the difference between the different lifestyles: swinging versus polyamory, BDSM communication styles versus...

We had an interesting discussion with Lee Harrington, author of an eclectic set of books.  His latest is "Traversing Gender", which provides a "newbies guide to other genders", with many references throughout the world and history.  It also reviews the differences between all the various terms like "transgender", "transsexual", "trans", "intersex" and a multitude of others. As a transgender person, the realities of "play" in both the swinging or BDSM lifestyles is completely different and...

The entire team jumps on the big bed in the Captain's catamaran in the Bahamas.  We catch up on what everybody has been doing. * We just completed the "Beachbody cruise" with about 6000 well-trained bodies stuck on a boat. * Captain is chartering the boat for "AirBB" and kinky travel.  (Drop him a line if interested: [email protected]). * Villain Jon is coding away on his new super-secret sexy project. * SinD is getting swingers into sexy shape.  (If you want to be trained by...

We take it down a notch and review the year 2015 and make our plans for 2016, which includes the BeachBody cruise, Naugthy in Nawlins and other fun swinger activities. The team reports in from "SantaCon" San Francisco, where our gang tried to convert some vanillas during the wild "city takeover".  First we go shopping in at the BDSM flea-market at the Citadel for new toys, then we take over "Divas", which is a cross-dressers bar, and create havoc and spanking demonstrations.  It is amazing...

We got an incredible deal for you today, just in time for the holidays!  This episode is a double feature: We visited "Bawdy Storytelling" and spoke with the ever unstoppable "Dixie De La Tour" about her concept of erotic storytelling as an art form, changing the community and ... fisting on a first date. As is a yearly ritual, we also hit "Folsom Street Faire", after which we interview "Marcello", who works as a performer on stage an in various videos for Kink.com and others.  He talks...

Our gang hits "Fetish and Fantasy" again in Las Vegas. There is a lot of  spanking and flogging going on stage, as usual. This year, we have some extra complications: * A gang of "hashers" takes over the hotel and causes havoc while our gang is trying to recover from their own naughty but exhausting activities * Mr. Bill brought along a vanilla friend, who has no idea what is going on.  She gets dunked in our pool of debauchery, while we hope she doesn't drown in the...

For your listening pleasure, we have a bunch of different subjects. Jon and SinD head to Los Angeles again to hang out with Mister Bill.   While Jon gets busy with one of his favorite play partners, the rest of the gang  talks about the history of BDSM in L.A. This goes all the way back to the early days of "Society of Janus", "Presidium" and  Treshold, when it was just a couple of kinky people playing around in a rented X-rated movie studio. We lured the makers of "SportSheets" (we...

Villain Jon heads to one of the largest swingers events in the country, to spread the gospel of bondage and kink.  We debrief with Brian and Tangerine from Tangerines Dream about the event the parties, the "poker runs", dances and events. Jon talks about the workshops, demonstrations of flogging, electric play  in the dungeon and the problems of teaching an entire room of crazy swingers to tie each-other up. His shenanigans were also documented by "We Gotta Thing" and "Swinger...

Jon and SinD do a bedcast debriefing about the visit to a swinger party by "CandY's Adventures".  There was a lot going on including surprise foursomes, demos, electricity play and flogging. We are going to Naugthy in Nawlins! Sign up now or miss it! (We interviewed Bob, the organizer previously) Help us by voting for us in the lifestyle awards!  Also featured in this episode: * The Violent wand * The celebrator (a.k.a. "the nina") vibrator * Couple's cruises

We got ourselves a few drinks and head for the hot tub, for our every own "bath-cast" (our homage to the Kapers), and debrief about our sexy adventures at the yearly swingers retreat.  Some of the stories involve spanking and flogging.  During half-time, Mistress SinD puts on her own show, which is not to be missed. In the second part, we interview "the newbies", hosts of "Primal Pleasure Parties" which includes "the art gallery" and "the winery" (as mentioned in Shira & Gavin's swinging...

We had a long chat with Bob Hannaford (half of the infamous "Bob & Tess" team), famous for creating spectacular events and cruises. Bob talks about the swinging lifestyle, being naked (pretty much a requirement to survive in New Orleans) and having a great time at a convention. They stared with having 100 couples, now their events welcome more than 800 couples each.  Instead of creating one big event, they create a cluster of smaller activities, so that everybody can find their own...

SinD and Victoria share their hazy recollections of a weekend together in London and debrief their raw feelings, straight from the heart: The fun of of partying, and the messiness of polyamory. Subjects discussed: * Signing up for OkCupid, getting too many responses to manage * Getting the wrong address * Practical polyamory also involves talking to the wife and telling dinosaur adventures to the kids . * Rocking out in London dance clubs * 3-way make-outs * SinD hunting 18...

Can you get into the swingers scene as a single male?  Many have tried and failed (some more spectacularly than others) but we talk do Daniel, who not only lived to tell the tale, he also wrote a book about it called “swingland”. We discuss: * How to be yourself * Creepy things to avoid * Not sending pictures of your junk (unless asked for) * Making yourself useful at parties in order to get yourself to be indispensable * Playing “Poker for pussy" * Swinging as single male versus a...

Just like last year, we hit Vegas like rockstars 🙂  First there were a bunch of spectacular swinger parties, then  we spent the night on stage flogging and spanking the most We welcome our newest member “Victoria Secret” from across the pond, who we just lured to the dark side. There was flogging of a moose, which may or may not have been president Obama. Like any good sports team, we had a dedicated massage therapist Bob.  He works for “No shame massage” in the LA area.   To top off...