In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Romance. What it means to be romantic in a relationship, how to bring more romance into a relationship and they share how they would prefer to experience romance with each other.  PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! Connect with  us on Instagram  https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed  https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com  For the...

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss how societal views impact how we all view sex. They touch on how we all should dictate our own sex lives on our own terms and not let society or any other outside influences determine what sex looks like for us, and how in doing so we can find true sexual liberation. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com  For the full video on YouTube,...

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss their Relationship Resolutions and how they plan to show up in their lives and relationship during 2024. They discuss being more intentional with their quality time, scheduling relationship check in’s and their desires to level up their sex life and explore new things like tantra. Listen as they share their resolutions and remember to check in and establish new goals with yourself and/or your partner.   PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! For...

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Intentionality and what it means to show up intentionally in your life, relationship, and bedroom. Listen as they define intention and share what showing up intentionally means to them, men’s misleading intentions, women’s deeper intentions around relationships, the importance of honesty, and gain some tips on how we can all show up more intentionally to strengthen our relationships. For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel...

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss their open relationship goals and how it hasn’t been as open as they both would like, they touch on their collective type, feeling rusty in the game, desires and concerns about approaching women and Ahmir shares how he feels Basirah is the perfect wingman! Tune in to hear their game plan to get what they desire and how they plan to go about getting.  PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed Connect with us on...

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss their journey with couples therapy and relationship coaching, they delve into why they started, how it has helped their relationship with themselves and each other, and also its impact on how they coach their clients.  PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! For Sex and relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com Connect with us on...

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah share their experiences as the take the next big step in their relationship and move in with one another and also share their transformative spiritual journey and how it has impacted their lives and relationship. Connect with us on Instagram https://instagram.com/bothsidesofthebed?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://linktr.ee/bothsidesofthebed For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com For the...

Are you a dom, sub or switch in your relationship?  Ahmir and Basirah believe that in every relationship, each person in it is either embodying a dominant energy, a submissive energy or switches between the two energies depending on how they feel. By knowing which personality aligns most with you, you can begin to better navigate your relationships by playing the role that comes most naturally to you. Join Ahmir and Basirah in part two of this this  two-part series that explores the world of...

Are you a dom, sub or switch in your relationship?  Ahmir and Basirah believe that in every relationship, each person in it is either embodying a dominant energy, a submissive energy or switches between the two energies depending on how they feel. By knowing which personality aligns most with you, you can begin to better navigate your relationships by playing the role that comes most naturally to you. Join Ahmir and Basirah in this  two-part series that explores the world of dominance and...

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah delve into the world of sex toys and share their tips on incorporating them into the bedroom. From sensual exploration to impact play, they've got you covered. Join them as they take you on an exciting tour of their favorite sexy toys that are sure to enhance your pleasure and playfulness. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! For the full video on YouTube, check out our channel...

Want to experience a deeper connection with your partner in and out of the bedroom? Or do you simply want some tips to help you and your partner get exactly what you desire sexually from each other? Join Ahmir and Basirah as they discuss the five love languages with a seductive twist, Continuing their mini-series about re-building connection, they'll show you how to use these love languages to take intimacy to new heights from Words of Affirmation to Physical Touch. Get ready for some...

Tune in to this weeks episode as Ahmir and Basirah share personal anecdotes, actionable advice on how to foster authentic connections and dive into Love Mapping by John Gottman. Whether you're seeking to enhance your existing relationships or forge new connections, this episode is sure to leave you inspired and equipped with valuable tools to navigate the real of human connection at its core. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! Share your stories, ask advice, or connect with us at...

In this deeply honest and insightful episode, Ahmir and Basirah continue their conversation from part one, delving even further into the challenges they've faced in their relationship and the ways in which they've grown and healed together. With vulnerability and authenticity, they share their journey of overcoming turmoil and finding a deeper connection, ultimately emerging stronger and more resilient. And in addition to exploring the depths of their personal experiences, they also share...

WELCOME TO SEASON 2!!! Come join Ahmir and Basirah in this amazing two-part first episode as they share their beautiful but intense twin flame journey. Get ready to feel all the feels as they get real about the ups and downs they've been facing and how their love for each other helped them through it all to get where they are today. Tune in next week for Part 2 of this episode. PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! Connect with us on Instagram...

In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah discuss Masturbation, why they do it, what they fantasize about, the value of self pleasure and the positive and negative effects it can have on our sex life.  Stay tuned to hear about the ways you can switch up you self pleasure “routine” PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! For Sex & Relationship Coaching with Basirah connect with her on her website https://www.b-intimate.com (https://www.b-intimate.com) For the full video on YouTube, check...

In this episode, after receiving many questions on the subject, Ahmir and Basirah finally take a deep dive into open relationship and talk about the different types of open relationships, what their open relationship looks like, and break down the good, the bad and all the sexy things that comes with being in one.  Stay tuned to hear about the important questions you should ask yourself if you are considering being in one too.  PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! For Sex &...

BSOTB IS BACK! In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah bring in the New Year catching us up on where they have been these last few months and some major challenges they faced during that time. Come along for the ride as they take you back to the loving beginnings of their relationship and the beginning of Both Sides of The Bed.  Stick around until the end for clips of bonus Patreon content of a conversation they had as they dive in deeper and unpack their feeling surrounding their...

Seduction is an energy, a dance, an intent and an art.  In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah dive into the 9 different seduction styles, share their personal seductive techniques and discuss how having a seductive game can amplify your chances of getting what you desire…and your prey.  PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! For the full video on YouTube, check out our  Channel @bothsidesofthebed  https://youtube.com/channel/UCOuDUZpjUhqXsC2AABwNuEw Connect with us on...

Have you wanted to spice things up in the bed room but struggled with how to bring up the topic to your partner?  In this weeks episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss “The Sex Blueprint”, a guide to help you get a better understanding of what you want and get a better understanding of your partners needs by,  Getting clear about your wants,  Identifying you desires  and Being vulnerable.  The Sex Blueprint: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1xZsEaAstvqKsU8J-ZeIZcBZ6_mMqHZmJ/view PLEASE LIKE,...

What are the right ingredients for great sex? In this episode, Ahmir and Basirah chat with Kiki and Medinah, the lovely ladies of the Cocktails: Dirty Discussions podcast. They discuss how to have great sex, being the beloved unicorn, and uncommon porn interests! Kiki and Medinah are honest, hilarious, and know exactly what great sex means.  Connect with our guests:  Cocktails...

Do you give your self permission to be sexually free? Do you prioritize fun in your sexual experiences?  In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss sexual freedom and the true embodiment of your sexual energy with sex enthusiast Majestyyy the self proclaimed “Funsexual”. Majestyyy takes us on a ride as they all discusses the importance of prioritizing fun and play in your sexual experiences.  You can find Majestyyy at The Funsexual Podcast and on social media...

For many of us our sex education journey has been anything but educational! Most of us have been taught about “the birds and the bees” and our schools have showed us many graphic images of all the STDS we were bound to get if we dared to have sex. But what about all the many MANY things they didn’t teach us?  In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss all the things we wish we learned about sex growing up! From communicating to your partner effectively to knowing how to please your self and...

Sexual Confidence sets the tone for any sexual experience, it determines how present we are, how well we connect and how good we f*ck.   In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss the importance of Sexual Confidence and deep dive into questions like “What kind of things make you feel sexually confident?” and “tell us about a time for you lacked sexual confidence?”. Listen as they share their journey to sexual confidence and some tips to help enhance your confidence in the bedroom. PLEASE...

Are you Vanilla, Freaky, or Kinky?  How would you define Vanilla, Freaky, and Kinky?  In this episode Ahmir and Basirah discuss the different definitions and perspectives surround Vanilla sex, Freaky behaviors and Kinky mindsets. Tune in as they share their personal experiences surrounding the type of sex they indulge in and how no matter the “category” you land in, sex is amazing as long as it’s consensual and you show up fully.  PLEASE LIKE, FOLLOW, SHARE AND  COMMENT! For the full video...