Episodes
What a good ol' fun time it's been, and now we're at the season 2 finale! On it, we do a total recap of some of our favorite moments on the show. Think of it like our greatest hits! This marks the end of Matt's consistent involvement with the project, but he might pop in from time to time. And Candice will keep on delivering some sweet, sweet nuggets! To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 12/11/20
Published 12/11/20
Published 11/01/20
Is Valentine's really just for lovers? We think not. On the market, off the market or somewhere in between, Valentine's day can be enjoyed by all. How? We are glad you asked... -Happy Valentines Day from all of us at Dateology.
Published 02/14/20
Holiday season is upon us, and the office parties, trips home to family, and New Year's preparations are in full swing. In this season, dating seems to get extra amplified with each new Christmas romcom. What's God's message of empowerment and grace for dating couples and singles this time of year? Join Matt and Candice as they talk it through, share stories, and toss out some ideas and opinions about dating around the holidays. Want to support us on Patreon? To see the tiers of support and...
Published 12/10/19
In some ways, all Candice and Matt do is talk about dating and faith on this show. But let's dive deeper into the number one question people have for us about dating: what do you think about Christians dating non-Christians? Join us as we seek out wisdom from the stories we've gathered and open the Bible to guide our path. Want to support us on Patreon? To see the tiers of support and perks for each one, visit https://www.patreon.com/dateology. To learn more about the show and to connect...
Published 11/18/19
What about when your friend starts to seem oh so dateable? Join Candice and Matt as they discuss friendship and dating. Maybe the friend zone has more to it than first meets the eye. What if your next date might be with a friend from the past? Want to support us on Patreon? To see the tiers of support and perks for each one, visit https://www.patreon.com/dateology. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 09/23/19
Back for part two of the conversation on Attachment Theory, Candice and Matt ask the important questions about attachment in dating: How would it actually if people who were psychologically secure dated one another? And how does the security of God help bring us into the freedom of more secure relationships? Want to support us on Patreon? To see the tiers of support and perks for each one, visit https://www.patreon.com/dateology. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or...
Published 08/16/19
How do our early established patterns of relating affect how we date? Listen as Candice expertly teaches about the psychology of attachment. And listen as Matt tries to keep pace with her psychological wisdom! Referenced: How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 07/26/19
Sharing a quick nugget of wisdom (ain't it so Christian to refer to bits of wisdom as "nuggets??"), Candice speaks from her psychological expertise about boundaries. What are appropriate emotional boundaries to keep in relationships? When is self-disclosure a good idea, and when it is right to hold some vulnerable parts of your story for another time? Plus, Candice announces our need for a sound engineer and the upcoming Happy Hour event in San Francisco on Thursday 6/27/19 (details on our...
Published 06/21/19
How do you know when to get exclusive and when to keep it casual? Candice and Matt explore what goes into the conversation: "I want to be exclusive. How about you?" Plus, why not talk about Saved by the Bell and the Archie comics? Support us on Patreon! To see the tiers of support and perks for each one, visit https://www.patreon.com/dateology. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 06/01/19
Taking a slight detour from a show all about Christian dating, Candice and Matt discuss singleness. What makes it so difficult? Why's it so beautiful? And hold on a sec... Jesus was single. That's a game changer. Support us on Patreon! To see the tiers of support and perks for each one, visit https://www.patreon.com/dateology. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 02/22/19
Candice and Matt chat about the reality of rejection and its foreboding presence in dating. What does it look like to let someone down easily, and how can connecting with Jesus help us handle the pain of rejection? Support us on Patreon! To see the tiers of support and perks for each one, visit https://www.patreon.com/dateology. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 02/08/19
Candice and Matt discuss all that is amusing, strange, illuminating, and sometimes painful about meeting your partner’s family. And ultimately, they discover how as followers of Jesus, there is great opportunity for honor, redemption and writing a new story. Support us on Patreon! To see the tiers of support and perks for each one, visit https://www.patreon.com/dateology. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 01/22/19
Candice and Matt talk with Mark Scandrette about the many complexities of city life and how they can make dating relationships challenging — but not impossible! Mark has been doing Christian ministry in San Francisco for 22 years, so this an episode full of wisdom and opportunities for reflection. Mark Scandrette is an author, teacher, activist, and coach, and you can find all his books and other resources at https://www.markscandrette.com. Support us on Patreon! To see the tiers of support...
Published 01/08/19
Candice and Matt return for the first episode of season 2! This episode is all about where to meet people. And the question they spend a good amount of time on is... where are YOU?  To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/. We just launched a Patreon! To see the tiers of support and perks for each one (and to back our work), visit https://www.patreon.com/dateology.
Published 12/25/18
How about we reflect on and celebrate some of what we’ve learned in a season 1 culmination? Join Candice and Matt as they enjoy a fun retrospective. Plus, they have a special word of blessing and gratitude for all their listeners. And... they announce a new website where you can reach out! To meet, visit https://www.dateology.org/
Published 08/30/18
How do race, ethnicity, dating, and the Gospel all come together? Race is a complicated thing to talk about, and Candice, Matt, and their guest Steve discuss it all in this vulnerable and thoughtful conversation. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 08/14/18
So the relationship is progressing… what happens now? In this episode, Candice and Matt talk about serious relationships and how they can trigger fears of intimacy and commitment. Plus, the team chats about how great it is to pray for God's guidance as a relationship becomes more serious. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 07/28/18
Why are people drawn to one another? Join Candice and Matt as they talk about what tend to be attractive qualities and what theories explain attraction. Plus, they'll consider how living according to a God-given calling might be one of the most attractive things of all. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 07/16/18
Ever had a crush on a friend? Or had a friend say they have a crush on you? Candice and Matt interview Emily, who shares her experience dating a longtime pal. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
Published 06/30/18
What can we learn from Cale’s reflections on the end of a relationship? Join Matt and Candice as they chat with Cale about our tendencies toward selfishness in dating. Plus, what about that one wild date with the woman who enjoyed dining with the dead? To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit http://bit.ly/dateology
Published 06/15/18
When it comes to sex, what are the dynamics at play in Christian dating? Candice and Matt discuss sex from a few different angles — from intimacy to porn to celibacy and more. Also, as promised in the show, here are a few links to resources Candice and Matt have found helpful in understanding the Bible’s teachings about sex. Sermons: The Story of Sex: Essence - http://bit.ly/2J5hvKu The Story of Sex: Ethics - http://bit.ly/2kFZMPy The Exclusive Paul - http://bit.ly/2suLynX Book: Loveology...
Published 06/01/18
When the breakup happens, where do we go next? Candice and Matt talk about breakups — in the midst of the conversation and in the aftermath. There's hope in knowing that God is always near to the brokenhearted. To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit http://bit.ly/dateology
Published 05/17/18
What do you do when messy, broken stuff comes up in a dating relationship? Is it worth it to keep going? Candice and Matt talk about the brokenness that inevitably surfaces in every relationship, and how the good news of Jesus empowers us to persevere and grow through it all. To learn more about the hosts and to follow Dateology on social media, visit http://bit.ly/dateology
Published 04/19/18