This episode is a discussion between hosts Jason and Lauren Vallotton about the importance of deep and fulfilling adult friendships. Inspired by recent events and discussions with others in their community, Jason and Lauren wanted to talk specifically about their own personal journeys in adult friendships as well as the practical things that people can do in order to foster deep and meaningful friendships.  Inheriting a legacy of robust friendships, as exemplified by Lauren's mother, sets...

This Q&A session is a follow-up on the recent Sex Series (episodes 62-67) and includes questions from listeners pertaining to individual, dating and marriage scenarios. The following topics are covered, and we've attached some links to other resources related: Healing from sexual past, including memories Restoration of virginity and the healing processDating  people who have extreme sexual history such as visiting prostitutes, porn, homosexuality, etcDating someone who is actively...

In the final episode of the Sex Series, the spotlight shifts to the intricate interplay of women's health and sex in the context of marriage. Rebekah LaRobardiere, a certified sex and relationship coach, joins the discussion, guiding listeners through the delicate dance of intimacy experienced by women from adolescence to menopause. Together, they explore the dynamic relationship between the body's natural rhythms and the emotional resonance of relationships, offering empathy and...

In this episode, listeners are invited to explore the complexities of marital intimacy overshadowed by past trauma, physical challenges and addiction through the compassionate insights of Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill from Connection Codes. The journey promised entails a path towards healing and a profound emotional bond between partners. Together, the hosts delve into the intricate dynamics of sexual trauma within marriage, emphasizing the importance of acknowledging and addressing old wounds...

Jason and Lauren Vallotton host Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill from Connection Codes as guests in Part 2 of a profound exploration of the intimate conversation about Sex in Marriage.  This episode delves into the intricacies of emotional connection and how it fuels a more fulfilling sexual relationship. The Hills unravel the complexities of sex in marriage and explain that emotional safety is not just complementary to intimacy—it's foundational. The Hills' candid reflections on their journey and...

Jason and Lauren Vallotton host Aaron and Jenna Zint as guests in Part 1 of a profound exploration of the intimate conversation about Sex in Marriage. These three questions, and more, are answered in this episode: Why is sex important in marriage?What is permissible inside of marriage, when it comes to sex?How does sex change over time and in different seasons of life in marriage?Their candid sharing illuminates the highs and lows of building a sexually fulfilling union, piercing through the...

In the second week of this Sex Series, Jason and Lauren navigate the sensitive terrains of intimacy, commitment, and faith in the context of premarital sex. Prepare to unravel the layers of emotional and spiritual significance that frame this topic, as they offer perspectives that could profoundly alter your understanding of relationships and self-control. Jason and Lauren engage in candid conversation about the reasons and ramifications of sexual purity, as seen through cultural and biblical...

Step into the inaugural episode of an enlightening series on human sexuality with hosts Jason and Lauren Vallotton, accompanied by special guests Cole and Caitlin Zick. Together, they embark on a journey of exploration and discovery, unraveling the complexities of desire, intimacy, and spirituality in the context of God's design for sex. In this foundational episode, they delve into four fundamental questions that set the stage for deeper exploration in the episodes to come: Why Did God...

In this episode, the Vallottons delve into the multifaceted journey of parenting, exploring the joys amidst the challenges. From embracing the chaos of everyday life with little ones to finding solace in routine, they uncover the valuable lessons that parenthood imparts. The Joy of Having the Littles in the Midst of the Hardships of Life: Parenthood is a rollercoaster ride of emotions, where moments of joy often intermingle with the challenges.Despite the chaos and exhaustion, there's an...

This Q&A session with the Vallotton covers a variety of interesting topics! Here are the questions they cover in Episode 60: What hard things might come up in a dating relationship that aren’t deal-breakers but should cause me to press in and explore more rather than end the relationship?What if you connect with someone in a dating relationship in every way BUT your faith? How do you balance friendship with your kids versus being an authoritative parent?In a separation due to my mental...

Episode Summary: In this episode, the Vallottons dive into the delicate decision of whether to end a dating relationship. With a focus on self-respect and personal well-being, they explore ten crucial reasons why staying might not be the best option. Show Notes: Abuse: Any form of abuse, be it physical, emotional, or verbal, should never be tolerated in a relationship. Recognizing and addressing abuse is paramount for your safety and mental health.Constant Unresolved Conflict: Relationships...

Join the Vallottons as they unwrap the mysteries of love, drawing from their own story that began just after Valentine's Day, 2010! They'll take you through the twists of their relationship, from the early days of butterflies and bashfulness to the profound bond they've nurtured over a decade. Love's true nature often gets lost in the clichés, but they're here to share how they found its deeper meaning and made it the cornerstone of their life together. As they reflect on the question that...

Have you ever wondered if the secret to a successful romance might be hidden in the foundations of friendship? Get ready to uncover the nuances of pre-dating as the Vallottons guide you through the art of assessing potential love interests from a platonic starting point. Navigating the transition from friendship to romance can be like walking a tightrope, but this conversation promises to equip you with the insights to maintain your balance with grace. Jason and Lauren delve into the...

Have you ever wondered if the secret to a successful romance might be hidden in the foundations of friendship? Get ready to uncover the nuances of pre-dating as the Vallottons guide you through the art of assessing potential love interests from a platonic starting point. Navigating the transition from friendship to romance can be like walking a tightrope, but this conversation promises to equip you with the insights to maintain your balance with grace. Jason and Lauren delve into the...

This Q&A sesh with the Vallotton's is fantastic content! Here are the questions they cover in Episode 56: How did you know it was the right time to get engaged?What are your tips for tired parents who are in the "Baby and a Toddler" season?Can I still be feminine and initiate the first step in a romantic relationship?What three things are essential for a deep, connected, healthy relationship with my wife?How do you know you’re ready to date after divorce?How do you know you’re ready to...

The Vallottons have delved into the intricate dynamics of relationships, pondering the reasons behind the fading spark and the drifting apart of once inseparable couples. They peel back the curtain on common relationship woes, attributing them to the subtle erosion of connection and communication. In a heartfelt discussion that is both intimate and informative, the Vallottons not only share their personal journey but also impart insights gained from the trenches of love and war. Central to...

Navigating the intricacies of parenting with a spirit-led approach takes center stage as Seth Dahl joins the conversation! Seth, with his rich background as a children's pastor, opens up about the emotional landscapes of both parents and children, revealing how these deeply affect family dynamics. The discussion spans from tales of discipline and understanding to fostering emotional intelligence in little ones, presenting a treasure trove of insights for those seeking to cultivate a nurturing...

Welcome to a heartfelt episode where the pillars of the Bethel Redding community, Richard and Libby Gordon, invite you into the sacred space of their lives. In this intimate conversation, the Gordons generously share their personal tales of faith, marriage, and parenting, offering a poignant glimpse into the intricate tapestry of their journey. Rich and Libby open up about their individual paths to faith, providing a rich context for the foundation of their shared spiritual journey. From...

Embark on a journey with the Vallottons as they arm individuals with the strategic know-how to make the New Year not just memorable but transformational. The Vallottons peel back the layers on why setting clear goals is the secret weapon for personal and relational triumphs, emphasizing the importance of a well-crafted "battle plan" to turn dreams into reality. In this episode, the Vallottons engage in a heartfelt discussion about navigating challenges between a vision that sparks inner fire...

In this episode, the Vallottons model a year-in-review process (below) that will strengthen your heart connection and and foster growth and unity as you step into the new year! Reflect on the Past YearShare personal reflections on the highlights and challenges experienced as a couple during the past yearDiscuss how external factors may have impacted the relationship and how you navigated those challenges togetherCelebrate AchievementsIdentify Areas for GrowthSet Relationship GoalsBalance...

Every dream of parenthood is unique, and for some, the road to family is laden with unexpected twists, triumphs, and trials. Jessica Satterfield gracefully steps into our space, sharing her profound journey of motherhood—a story that encompasses the poignant complexities of infertility, loss, and the beautiful mosaic of adoption. From her childhood yearnings to the deepening of her faith, Jessica unravels the challenges she and her husband, Brandon, faced as they navigated through the...

In this episode, Jason and Lauren  answer several questions sent in by the audience! The topics  covered are: Insecurities about ex'sPrenupsDating someone with a porn addictionMidlife crisis in marriageDating someone with children Helping siblings bondConnect with Lauren: Instagram Facebook Connect with Jason: Jay’s Instagram Jay’s Facebook BraveCo Instagram www.braveco.org

In this insightful conversation, the audience is introduced to Danny Silk, an esteemed expert in relational health and family dynamics. As the exploration into the delicate balance of maintaining a thriving family while navigating the responsibilities of a leadership role unfolds, listeners gain valuable insights. The challenges and rewards of harmonizing professional commitments with family time take center stage. Through the lens of Danny's experiences, the episode emphasizes the crucial...

How do you rebuild a marriage after the harsh sting of infidelity? Jason and Lauren Vallotton interview their dear friends, Ben and Heather Armstrong, who have got some answers that empower couples to opt back in, even after the devastation of broken trust. The Armstrongs offer a heartening and insightful conversation where they candidly share their journey of perseverance and hope, revealing how they found their way back to each other after a painful betrayal. Their story isn't just about...