Welcome back to another thrilling episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul! I'm your host, Lisa Shield, and today we have a very special guest joining us. Get ready to be captivated by the stunning talent and empowering journey of burlesque dancer, Zia Sandía! In today's episode, Zia takes us on a remarkable ride through her transformation, from ballet folclórico to the captivating world of burlesque. We'll explore her struggles with embracing sensuality, femininity, and self-love, and...

Welcome to another episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul® with your host, Lisa Shield. Today, we are diving into a hot topic: "Do Men Really LOVE to Chase Women?" Lisa, a relationship coach who specializes in teaching clients how to take the "feminine lead" in dating, is here to debunk some dating myths and provide valuable insights. In this episode, we'll learn about the dangers of game playing, the importance of genuine connection, and the exploration of mutual interest. Join Lisa as...

Today, Lisa dives into a topic that many of you have been requesting: the blind spots that could be keeping you single. In this episode, we'll explore the five common obstacles that may be preventing you from finding love and forming a deep connection with a partner. From fear of vulnerability to unrealistically high expectations, we'll uncover the patterns and behaviors that can unknowingly push potential suitors away. So, grab your headphones and get ready to discover the blind spots that...

Welcome back to another episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®". I'm your host, Lisa Shield, and today we have a very special guest joining us. We are thrilled to have the distinguished family law expert, Aaron Thomas, on the show. Aaron is a three-time recipient of Atlanta's Best Divorce Attorney Award and the founder of Aaron Thomas Law, one of Georgia's fastest-growing family law firms. With a Harvard Law School background, Aaron has represented high-profile clients ranging from...

Welcome back to another episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®! Today, we are diving into the world of relationships, exploring the mysterious dynamics between men and women. Join me and Benjamin, as we unravel the gender-related complexities of dating. In this episode, Benjamin shares anecdotes from his 21-year relationship, reflecting on the advice he once received from a trusted attorney friend. As he delves into the fears of commitment that both men and women experience, he sheds...

Welcome back to "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul ®," the podcast that delves deep into the realms of love, relationships, and personal growth. In today's episode titled "GITRMM: Embracing the Sensual: Femininity and the Power of Sensual Expression," your hosts, Benjamin Shield and Lisa Shield, invite you to explore the transformative power of embracing your senses and the profound impact it can have on your romantic journey. Benjamin, a seasoned body worker with over 40 years of...

Welcome back to "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®," the podcast where we dive deep into the intricacies of relationships. In today's episode, titled "Lost in Translation: How Men and Women Hear Dating Terms Differently," your host Lisa Shield takes a closer look at the misunderstandings that can arise when it comes to communication in relationships. We'll start by exploring the request for space that men often make and how women may misinterpret it as a sign of trouble. Lisa shares...

Welcome back to "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®"! I'm your host, Lisa Shield, and in today's episode, we have the honor of welcoming a very special guest, Dr. Larry Fan. Dr. Fan is an acclaimed, Harvard-educated plastic surgeon and the founder of 77 Plastic Surgery in San Francisco. With his never-overdone aesthetic, he has positively impacted over 10,000 lives and has been recognized as one of America's top plastic surgeons. But Dr. Larry Fan's journey to becoming a pioneer in the field...

Welcome back to "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®" with your host Lisa Shield. In today's episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of femininity and masculinity in relationships. We'll be exploring how women can bring out a man's masculinity, and in turn, express their own femininity. We'll debunk the myth that simply dressing up and waiting for the "right guy" is enough. We'll uncover the truth behind men who appear to know how to make women feel feminine, revealing their avoidant,...

Welcome back to another exciting episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®." Today, we dive into the fascinating world of online dating and how artificial intelligence is revolutionizing the dating game. We'll explore the cutting-edge technologies that aim to make online dating safer, but also the potential pitfalls and dangers that come with them. Get ready to discover the future of online dating and how AI is both transforming the way we find love and challenging our perceptions of...

In this episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®," our host Lisa Shield welcomes special guest Lisa Y. to share her inspiring journey of finding love and investing in herself. She shares her experience of being a divorced mom and the turning point that led her to prioritize her own happiness. Through the transformative course, she learned valuable lessons about relationships and personal growth. Join us as she discusses her newfound perspective on finding a partner, the importance of...

Welcome back to "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®," the podcast that delves into the complexities of relationships and guides you towards finding a true, secure connection. In today's episode, titled "Spark First or Flame Later: Exploring the Chemistry Conundrum in Relationships," our host, Lisa Shield, takes a deep dive into the often misunderstood topic of chemistry in relationships. Join us as we unravel the mysteries behind immediate connections, attachment styles, and the importance of...

On this episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®, we delve into the age-old question: what is more important to a man, looks or personality? Our hosts Benjamin and Lisa Shield tackle this topic head-on, discussing traditional ideas about love, the concept of love languages, and Lisa’s personal experience as a fashion photographer working with models who are both beautiful and deeply insecure. They emphasize the importance of substance, compatibility, emotional availability, and kindness...

Welcome back to another episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®! In today's episode, we dive deep into a topic that is often overlooked but so crucial for healthy relationships: empowering women to ask for what they want. We believe that true partnership begins with open communication and the ability to express one's needs and desires. We'll explore the significance of women speaking their truth, the importance of clear communication, and understanding the basic human needs fulfilled in...

Welcome back to Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®, the podcast where we explore all things related to love, relationships, and finding the perfect partner for your soul. In today's episode, we dive deep into the world of online dating and uncover 10 ways in which AI technology can revolutionize your search for love. From enhancing safety measures to optimizing your profile and even suggesting personalized matches, AI is changing the game when it comes to online dating. Join us as we explore...

Can you be emotionally naked without compromising your boundaries? Join Lisa and Benjamin as they explore the art of fearlessly authentic communication. They first discuss what it truly means to be fearlessly authentic, and how the foundation is all about having boundaries. They talk about the gradual process of being "emotionally naked" and the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries along the way. Through personal examples, Lisa and Benjamin highlight the power of effective...

Would a man rather feel alone and unloved or respected? The answer may surprise you. Also, are you creating a safe, loving, and respectful space for a man to open up to you? This week, Lisa challenges the notions that men are either impervious to sensitivity or big sensitive babies and how we can foster stronger relationships by understanding and meeting their needs. She explores the profound connection between respect and love for men. Learn how to identify signs of disrespect and create an...

Can love survive without friendship? In today's episode, Lisa discusses the dangers of becoming lovers before friends. She shares her journey, highlighting the profound significance of cultivating genuine friendships with men. She examines the consequences of rushing into physical intimacy without a solid foundation and emphasizes the importance of prioritizing emotional connection over immediate physical gratification. Lisa also talks about the importance of slowing down to recognize the...

Join Lisa and Benjamin in this lively and engaging episode as they dive into the topic of green flags that men look for in women. Discover the qualities that make a man's interest pique and differentiate a woman from the rest. Contrary to common misconceptions, men are seeking an emotional connection, commitment, and long-term relationships, just like women. Don't miss this fun and enlightening discussion on what men truly desire in a potential partner from the inside out,, and what truly...

This week, Lisa welcomes head coach Rebecca to discuss a topic they often see come up for the women they work with - double standards in the dating world. They explore how it can be challenging for both men and women to truly understand each other. However, by examining the struggles men face in dating, you can have more compassion and open yourself up to stronger connections with your dates. Throughout the episode, they discuss double standards in breakups, appearance, expectations, and the...

After receiving Meranda's beautiful and heartfelt note, Lisa was inspired to invite her to share her remarkable success story. Meranda's journey began when she completed the Emotionally Naked Dating program in 2021 and continued her coaching, bravely peeling back the layers holding her back. At 63, she yearned for a true partnership and wanted her son to witness her happiness with a loving companion. During her conversation with Lisa, Meranda candidly discusses her disappointing experiences...

In dating, does it feel like you're keeping one foot in and one foot out, fearing rejection and the possibility of messing things up? Or, what if things go too well, and that means that the other shoe should drop and everything will fall apart soon, right? Well, fear no more! In this episode, Lisa dives into these challenges and gives the two most common ways women tend to self-sabotage in relationships and what is typically at the core of these patterns. Through Lisa's program, you'll gain...

Join Lisa and Benjamin in this powerful episode as they provide a jumping-off point with a curated list of 10 questions designed to gauge a man's emotional availability and the compatibility of his core values and goals with yours. They emphasize the importance of steering clear from a rigid checklist approach and instead infusing your personal touch, making the questions more conversational and engaging. Discover why it's crucial to give men the time they need to reflect on deeper inquiries...

Navigating situations where income disparities exist can be challenging, and finding the right balance is crucial. Lisa shares valuable strategies for fostering open and respectful conversations with men about this topic, emphasizing the importance of setting clear expectations from the start. Drawing from her expertise, she sheds light on the common mistakes women make when dating someone with a different income level and offers insights on cultivating harmony in relationships where money...

Many of us get into trouble because we're going after the guys who treat us poorly, the love bombers, the narcissists, and the guys that come on too fast and too strong. But what about the nice guys or those with what Lisa and Benjamin call "nice guy syndrome?" This week, they explore how being nice doesn't automatically make someone a suitable partner, and they unravel the differences between genuine compassion and kindness and a man that gives to go get. Benjamin talks about how resentment...