Episodes
Welcome to another episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul® with your host, Lisa Shield. Today, we are diving into a hot topic: "Do Men Really LOVE to Chase Women?" Lisa, a relationship coach who specializes in teaching clients how to take the "feminine lead" in dating, is here to debunk some dating myths and provide valuable insights. In this episode, we'll learn about the dangers of game playing, the importance of genuine connection, and the exploration of mutual interest. Join Lisa as...
Published 04/23/24
On today's episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' we embark on a quest to unveil the secret signs that signal he's the right guy for you. Our guide through this journey of discovery is the incomparable Lisa Shield, whose expertise in forging stronger connections with men transforms the way women approach relationships.
Published 04/09/24
In today's compelling episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' we delve into the multifaceted world of communication between the sexes, particularly when it comes to the intricate dance of dating. Prepare for unraveling enigmas as we explore the often-misconstrued signals and phrases that men and women exchange in the pursuit of love.
Published 04/02/24
On this playful episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' join our spirited pair, Lisa and Benjamin Shield, as they unveil the whimsical secret to nurturing a flourishing relationship – humor! Dive into the romantic world where laughter reigns supreme, and discover why a giggle can be the golden key to a partner’s heart.
Published 03/26/24
In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa and Benjamin Shield explore the profound dynamics of a committed relationship and what drives a man to want to commit. With insightful observations and personal experiences, they discuss the importance of creating space, nurturing personal dreams, and supporting each other's growth. Their discussion emphasizes the significance of friendship, trust, and the ability to mirror masculinity in fostering a strong, enduring connection....
Published 03/13/24
In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' host Lisa Shield delves into the important topic of breaking down emotional walls in relationships. Lisa shares her personal journey and the transformative experience of opening up to her husband, Benjamin, and how this vulnerability brought healing and deep connection to their relationship.
Published 03/05/24
In today's episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield explores the intricate balance between commitment and freedom that challenges many modern relationships. Decoding the behaviors of men who might seem to avoid commitment, Lisa clarifies that not all men who appear avoidant are averse to intimacy. With personal anecdotes and two decades of expertise, she delves into the diverse motivations that steer men away from long-term attachments—be it the pursuit of a career, valuing...
Published 02/27/24
In today's episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa dives into the challenges of surrendering to the dating process and being open to growth and learning. She talks about the importance of self-improvement and personal accountability in dating and learning to embody the qualities you seek in a partner.
Published 02/20/24
On today's episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa delves into the exceptional insights from her live five-day master class, "Land a Man on Your Level." Lisa, renowned for her expertise and the celebrated Emotionally Naked Dating course, joins forces with her partner Benjamin to craft online dating profiles that resonate deeply with clients, as evidenced by glowing testimonials and successful love matches.
Published 02/13/24
In this heartfelt episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' join us as former client, Elaine, shares her poignant and inspiring quest for love after losing her husband. Elaine talks openly about how Lisa’s course, Emotionally Naked Dating, was the catalyst for change in her dating life during a difficult stage. Lisa and Elaine’s candid conversation lays bare the challenges and revelations of her journey as a widow grappling with her return to the dating scene. She shares the ways in...
Published 02/06/24
In this captivating episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa and Benjamin unravel the complex web of commitment phobia in men. The conversation delves deep into the heart of why so many men run when they find a relationship that has the potential to be real and enduring. From the fear of sacrificing independence to the daunting quest for perfection, they dissect the five core reasons that keep men teetering on the edge of commitment. Lisa and Benjamin share intimate anecdotes...
Published 01/30/24
Today on 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' I bring you the remarkable love tale of Elena and Heath. Elena, an Oracle pro and a mother, revolutionized her approach to romance after completing the transformative 12-week Emotionally Naked Course. This experience catalyzed her life, eventually leading her to Heath, her kindred spirit and life partner. Heath, who brings his experiences from his military career, has embraced life with Elena and her children, adding a new dimension to their...
Published 01/23/24
Welcome to another insightful episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul, a podcast where we delve deep into the intricacies of dating and relationships to help you understand the dynamics that enhance and sabotage romantic connections. In today's episode, Lisa and Benjamin look at control and how it can push a man away. We discuss the signs that a woman may exert too much influence in a relationship, from micromanaging what a man wears to undermining his independence. We'll discuss why...
Published 01/16/24
Welcome back to "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul," the podcast where we unlock the secrets of the heart and discover true love in our lives. I'm your host, Lisa Shield, and in today’s episode, we're going to tackle the challenging topic of being single during a time when it feels like the whole world is paired up. Join me as I share not only my personal journey of self-discovery and love post-divorce but also practical advice on how to navigate the festive season with an open heart. We'll...
Published 01/09/24
In this episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul," Lisa reflects on her personal journey of finding love after a difficult relationship with her father. She shares her struggles and the impact her father had on her romantic relationships and how she was able to overcome these challenges to ultimately find love and healing. Through her candid and introspective storytelling, Lisa encourages listeners to recognize the power they have to heal their past wounds and pursue a loving,...
Published 01/02/24
Welcome back to "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul." Today, we delve into a conversation about the evolution of love and commitment. This episode features a candid discussion with previous client Caroline, who met her partner Matt while navigating the complexities of modern dating. In spite of the sometimes superficial and chaotic nature of the apps, together they uncovered a deeper, more intentional connection. Their story is a testament to the power of vulnerability and shared values,...
Published 12/26/23
In this enlightening episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul," Lisa Shield takes us on a soulful journey toward deep connection and receptivity. Today's discussion is a compelling dive into the art of becoming more receptive and unlocking the best in men. In our modern world, corporate businesswomen often have high expectations and a stringent checklist for their ideal partner, driven by past relationships and preconceived notions. Lisa challenges this narrative by sharing her own...
Published 12/19/23
Welcome back to another episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®. I'm your host, Lisa Shield. In today's episode, I dive into the intersection of romance and finance, exploring what to look for in a finally responsible partner. I share insights on how successful couples have navigated their financial relationships. Finally, I discuss the importance of trust, personal growth, and finding a true connection based on spiritually grounded principles. Stay tuned for a thought-provoking...
Published 12/12/23
Welcome back to "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®," the podcast that helps you navigate the complexities of dating and relationships. In today's episode, we have a special guest joining us, Jessica! Jessica shares her incredible journey from having a child on her own to working with us and meeting Thom, the Guardian of Her Soul and now ‘father’ of her beautiful daughter. This year, Jessica and Thom were married by Lisa at her home in Santa Fe, NM. Jessica’s story goes against the odds,...
Published 12/05/23
Welcome to a brand new episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul®, where we dive deep into the complexities of love and relationships. Lisa Shield tackles a topic of the common mistakes many women in their 30s make when looking for love. Lisa shares her personal journey of prioritizing her career over her dating life and the consequences she faced. She delves into the five key mistakes she made and offers valuable insights that apply to anyone who is in her 30s and searching for love. If...
Published 11/28/23
Have you ever found yourself constantly chasing an ideal of perfection in your relationships? Perhaps you felt the need to put on a facade or act a certain way to attract a partner. But what happens when the chase is over? When the real you is revealed, and it's not what your partner was expecting? Join me as we unravel the layers of perfectionism and control that can harm our relationships. We'll discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, recognizing our own triggers, and embracing...
Published 11/21/23
Welcome back to another thrilling episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul! I'm your host, Lisa Shield, and today we have a very special guest joining us. Get ready to be captivated by the stunning talent and empowering journey of burlesque dancer, Zia Sandía! In today's episode, Zia takes us on a remarkable ride through her transformation, from ballet folclórico to the captivating world of burlesque. We'll explore her struggles with embracing sensuality, femininity, and self-love, and...
Published 11/14/23
Welcome to another episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul® with your host, Lisa Shield. Today, we are diving into a hot topic: "Do Men Really LOVE to Chase Women?" Lisa, a relationship coach who specializes in teaching clients how to take the "feminine lead" in dating, is here to debunk some dating myths and provide valuable insights. In this episode, we'll learn about the dangers of game playing, the importance of genuine connection, and the exploration of mutual interest. Join Lisa as...
Published 11/07/23
Today, Lisa dives into a topic that many of you have been requesting: the blind spots that could be keeping you single. In this episode, we'll explore the five common obstacles that may be preventing you from finding love and forming a deep connection with a partner. From fear of vulnerability to unrealistically high expectations, we'll uncover the patterns and behaviors that can unknowingly push potential suitors away. So, grab your headphones and get ready to discover the blind spots that...
Published 10/31/23