Episode 18: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In today's episode we discuss one of the most insidious manipulative tactics out there; gaslighting. We dive into our own experiences being gaslit, whether we've ever done it to others or even to ourselves, and whether or not the action is always intentional. Although we aren't even remotely close to being experts on this topic, we thought that bringing light to this may be beneficial to somebody, just anybody,...

Episode 17: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In today's episode we discuss red flags and (not-so-alarming-but-could-be-concerning) pink flags. We talk about what we consider to be red flags, pink flags and what to do when you come across them in your relationships. So, join us as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! --- Twitter: @DMPocastt Suggestions / Feedback:...

Episode 16: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In today's episode we talk about our individual journeys to becoming our(authentic)selves! From discussing the impact the lockdown had in playing catalyst, to discussing the personal changes we've noticed in ourselves from before our journey to now, we dive into it all. Join us in this intimate conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the...

Episode 15: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In today's episode we tackle the concept of pretty privilege. We speak about what it is, the differences in experiences of those with and those without it, and what is and can be done about it. Join us in this important conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! --- Twitter: @DMPocastt Suggestions / Feedback:...

Episode 14: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In today's episode we are joined by the boys of the Cancel Me Podcast as we tackle various topics such as what it is to be a "simp", what it is to be a "clown", and how we navigate dating in the age of social media. Join us as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! --- Twitter: @DMPocastt Suggestions / Feedback:...

Episode 13: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. It's beeeeen a minute, to say the least, but we're so happy to be back! In this episode we dive into the topic of "leagues;" how to overcome them, what they're categorised by, and whether or not they are even real. Join us once again as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode!  ---  Twitter: @DMPocastt  Suggestions / Feedback:...

Episode 12: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In our final episode before our big break, we engage with one another on Twitter topics. We speak about celebrity lookalikes, the "ick" and what causes it, and whether or not you should take back your ex. We ask ourselves whether we identify as "soft girls" or "city girls", and of course we also touch on the notorious Twitter standards. So join us once again as you grab your tea, coffee, wine or water and enjoy...

Episode 11: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this week's episode we're joined with our friend (and resident astro-hoe), SQ! From discussing the ins and outs of astrology to diving a bit into the topic of manifestation as well; we speak about it all. Join us as you grab your tea, coffee or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy ! --- SQ's Blog: https://sqastrology.wordpress.com/2020/04/29/the-journey-begins Twitter: @DMPocastt Suggestions...

Episode 10: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this week's episode we dive into the topics of saying "no" and setting boundaries. We speak about our previous difficulties saying the word the "no", setting boundaries and abandoning the "nice girl" narrative. Join us as you grab your tea, coffee or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy ! --- Twitter: @DMPocastt Suggestions / Feedback: https://forms.gle/mx6znsmvWZ5G9GCh7

Episode 9: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this week's episode we dive into the topic of cancel culture. We share our thoughts on whether or not we believe that people can actually change their views and what exactly is deemed as unforgivable. With all that being said, do people *really* even get cancelled ? Join us as you grab your tea, coffee or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy ! --- Twitter: @DMPocastt Suggestions / Feedback:...

In this episode, we try to find the balance between ensuring a good future and enjoying your youth while you still have it. We talk about the difficulty of making decisions for the future in the present and working towards your goals without feeling like you are completely denying yourself a good time. We also touch on where all this pressure comes from and comparing yourself to standards set by social media and others. Join us while you grab your tea, coffee or whatever it you need to get...

Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're Chisanga & Maselo, two friends just chattin' about life.  In this episode we're joined with Lwandle and Musa as we discuss all things 'guy code' . From sharing a crush with a friend to discussing the efforts in ensuring an emotional safe space is created within their friendship groups; we dive into it all. Join us in this fun and somewhat light-hearted conversation as you grab your tea, coffee or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy!...

In this episode Chisanga and Maselo talk about their "firsts" From first kisses, crushes, break-ups, all the way the first time shooting their shots. They reflect on these laughable experiences that almost everyone can relate to. Join them in this fun and nostalgic conversation as you grab your tea, coffee or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy! :) Twitter: @DMPodcastt Google Form (for suggestions/feedback):...

We're back !!! With the implementation of lockdown, alongside all the social issues occurring around the world; self care has reached a new level of importance. This week on Definitely, Maybe, co-hosts Chisanga and Maselo dive into the topic of self care and what they've been doing to stay afloat. Somewhat tying in with the topic, they also discuss their journeys to self discovery through their choice of becoming intentionally single.  Join them in this reflective and insightful...

This week on Definitely, Maybe, co-hosts Chisanga and Maselo along with their first-ever guests, Anthony and Thenji, discuss colourism. They dive into the experiences of both woman and men; taking a look into their journeys to loving the skin they're in as well as possible ways to eradicate this prevalent issue. Join them in this serious, yet insightful conversation as you grab your tea, coffee or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy!  Twitter: @DMPodcastt Google Form (for...

This week in the third episode, co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo take a closer look into the unwritten girl code. Join the two friends as they reflect on their experiences and give their opinions on some others. With topics surrounding inheriting beef, significant others, and even taking a deeper look into whether there's another unwritten code..but for black girls; the duo dive into it all! You know the drill - grab your tea, coffee, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and...

This week in the second episode, co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo take a closer look into the topics surrounding leaving high school and entering the early stages of adulthood (or as some may call it, University). Join them as they reflect on friendships, independence, and all their other experiences thus far. So, grab your tea, coffee, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy ! --- Twitter: @DMPodcastt If you would like to give feedback / suggestions:...

This week on the very first episode of 'Definitely, Maybe' Chisanga & Maselo dive into the topic of the "talking stage" and their understanding thereof. From the importance of giving it a title all the way to deciphering whether or not it's even that serious; they mention it all... kinda. So, grab your tea, coffee, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy ! Twitter: @DMPodcastt

Here's a little sneak peak on what to expect :) Twitter | @DMPodcastt