Episodes
Season 2 Episode 10: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this final episode of the season we speak about the inevitable realisations that come with growing up and finding your place in the world! We discussed what we've realised about the world, ourselves and what we want moving forward. Join us in this laid-back, reflective conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! This is...
Published 04/26/22
Published 04/26/22
Season 2 Episode 9: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. This week we're joined by our lovely friends Jan and SQ! We spent the episode discussing and sharing our opinions on a few "am I the a**hole?" Reddit stories. Get ready to be a fly on the wall in this very fun, and thought-provoking conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! ---- TikTok: @DMPodcastt Twitter:...
Published 04/19/22
Season 2 Episode 8: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. This week we speak about being alone but not lonely. Alone time does not have to mean lonely time and we speak about our individual journeys to realising this. We touch on what we do in our alone time, the benefits of spending time alone, and setting boundaries with people the people you're in relationship with. Join us in this nice, little convo as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is...
Published 04/04/22
Season 2 Episode 7: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. This week we speak about sibling relationships. With one of us being the first born and the other being the last born we experience things a bit differently when it comes to family/sibling dynamics. We speak about the impact our siblings have had in shaping who we are today, our relationships with our siblings, and whether or not we think we'd be friends with them if we weren't related. Join us in this...
Published 03/28/22
Season 2 Episode 6: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. This week we reflect on the past and speak on it "knowing what we know"! We speak about who we were, why and in the ways we have changed. Join us in this reflective, therapy-esque (lol) conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! ---- TikTok: @DMPodcastt Twitter: @DMPodcastt Instagram: @DMPodcastt Suggestions / Feedback:...
Published 03/22/22
Season 2 Episode 5: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. This week we continue our first date conversation from last week where we spoke about all things first dates! We discuss how to manage expectations/nerves, ideal first dates, red flags to look out for, and we even speak about our personal first date experiences. Join us in this fun, and light-hearted conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and...
Published 03/14/22
Season 2 Episode 4: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. This week we speak about all things first dates! We discuss how to manage expectations/nerves, ideal first dates, red flags to look out for, and we even speak about our personal first date experiences. Join us in this fun, and light-hearted conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! ---- TikTok: @DMPodcastt Twitter:...
Published 03/08/22
Season 2 Episode 3: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. This week we talk about friendship! We acknowledge the importance of having good friends and what defines one. We touch on toxic friendships, friendship icks and red flags, and how to make and maintain good friendships. So join us in this almost reflective conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! ---- South Africa Suicide...
Published 02/28/22
Season 2 Episode 2: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this week's episode we discuss all things cheating! We speak about what we classify as cheating, what to do when you suspect cheating, being falsely accused of cheating, going back to a cheater and so forth, and so forth. Join us in this thought-provoking conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! ---- TikTok:...
Published 02/21/22
Season 2 Episode 1: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. WE'RE BACK!!! Excited to be back on the mic, this week we reflect on the past year - 2021 - and the people we were in that year. We speak about where we're currently at and share our hopes for the new year and how we plan on making them a reality. Join us in this reflective conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the...
Published 02/15/22
Episode 32: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. This week in our final episode before our season break; we share the story of how this podcast came to fruition, have one last catch-up, and lastly.. re-introduce ourselves from the perspectives of some of the people who know us. Join us in this fun conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! ---- Twitter: @DMPodcastt Suggestions /...
Published 10/19/21
Episode 31: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. This week we're joined by Lwandle & Anthony! We talk about hookup culture from the perspectives of both men and women. We discuss the rules of engagement; the different levels of hooking up; the good, the bad; and being a part of 'the hookup generation'. Join us in this fun and honest conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the...
Published 10/12/21
Episode 30: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this episode we dive into spirituality. We speak about our own spiritual journeys; the intersection of different practices; and soulmates/twin-flames. Join us in this vulnerable conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! ---- Twitter: @DMPodcastt Suggestions / Feedback: https://forms.gle/mx6znsmvWZ5G9GCh7
Published 10/05/21
Episode 29: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. Today we are joined by our friends Banele and Obakeng! In this episode we discuss f*ckboys! We dive into the nitty gritty of; what defines a f*ckboy, signs to look out for, whether or not you should tread lightly when hearing second-hand information and SO much more! Join us in this fun and light-hearted conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy...
Published 09/28/21
Episode 28: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this episode we talk about emotional availability, emotional intelligence and attachment styles. We reflect on our own emotional availability or lack thereof and discuss what internet sources have to say on these topics. Join us in this honest conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! ---- Podcasts listed:  Small Doses with...
Published 09/21/21
Episode 27: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this episode we discuss the elephant in the room... maybe they're just not that into you. From 'bread-crumbing' and 'benching' to situationships and hookup culture. Get prepared for the inevitable digressions in-between, as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! --- Twitter: @DMPodcastt Suggestions / Feedback:...
Published 09/14/21
Episode 26: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this episode we speak about our self-love journeys and social media's impact thereon. We also discuss insecurities and imposter syndrome and how we deal with them. So, grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! --- Twitter: @DMPodcastt Suggestions / Feedback: https://forms.gle/mx6znsmvWZ5G9GCh7
Published 09/07/21
Episode 25: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this episode we are joined by our two friends Rori and Ruth and we discuss all things social media! We talk about how social media has changed from when it first started, speak about the different apps and what they represent and reflect on our individual social media presences. Join us in this sincere and fun conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable...
Published 08/24/21
Episode 24: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this episode we speak about all things age gaps. When does an age gap become acceptable? Are societal judgements fair and justified? Are power imbalances inevitable in age gap relationships? Am I "mature" or are they just a "predator"? Join us in this light-hearted conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water, or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! --- Twitter:...
Published 08/10/21
Episode 22: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In this episode we open up and have an honest conversation about mental health. We talk about our own thoughts and experiences regarding mental health, how we manage/d it and how to be there for yourself and those around you. Listen in on this vulnerable conversation as you grab your tea, coffee, wine, water or whatever it is you need to get comfortable and enjoy the episode! TW: Depression, Anxiety, Self-harm,...
Published 07/27/21
Episode 22: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. We're SO excited to be be back!! In today's episode we dive into the topic of cynicism and naivety. We identify the pros and the cons of both, discuss how to overcome them, and give our opinions on whether we believe a person being naïve or cynical is a learned or inherent character trait. We somehow managed to dabble in a bit of socialism vs capitalism too! If you're ready to lend an ear to this conversation then...
Published 07/13/21
Episode 20: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In today's episode Maselo is joined by guest co-host Obakeng to speak about the controversial topic that is platonic relationships. We touch on: how to read someone's intentions, maintaining platonic relationships while in a romantic one, when to let them go, and if it's even worth having these friendships. So, if you're ready to listen to this interesting chat then grab your tea, coffee, wine, water or whatever...
Published 05/25/21
Episode 20: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In today's episode we're joined by Phumi & Tetelo! We speak about all things related to shooting shots; from the 90% success rate myth attached to girls shooting their shots, to dealing with rejection, to even speaking about how to shoot your shot in different scenarios, we dive into it all! So, if you're ready to be a fly on the wall in a fun, light-hearted conversation then grab your tea, coffee, wine, water...
Published 04/06/21
Episode 19: Welcome to Definitely, Maybe! We're co-hosts Chisanga & Maselo. In today's episode we begin our brand new series... Student Diaries.  We start the series off by speaking about how we experienced the past, are dealing with the present and feel about the future of our individual and collective lives as students. We speak on the holistic experience of being a student, online learning, and our feelings about going into the new year. So, join us in this sincere convo as you grab...
Published 03/23/21