After going through her own divorce, comedian, actress and author Samantha Baines started The Divorce Social podcast talking to a different guest each week about their break up experience.    Sam and Steph talk about losing yourself in a relationship, and the ‘phases’ after a marriage ends. Sam gives some excellent advice on how to support a friend (and what not to say) and some thoughts on not seeing the relationship as all just a horrible mistake. Also, everyone should apparently spend a week with Channing Tatum to get through a divorce. Righto, we’re in.    This episode is sponsored by Lovehoney, the Sexual Happiness Company,  the UK’s most popular online shop for buying adult toys and lingerie discreetly and whose Bullet vibrator is now featuring in the Don’t Buy Her Flowers Break Up Package    Sam’s podcast The Divorce SocialSam’s YouTube (including the Magic Mike clips mentioned!)Sam’s Instagram Sam has written two children books with a deaf protagonist (Sam wears a hearing aid) Harriet vs The Galaxy and The Night the Moon Went Out  Steph’s Instagram Email Steph [email protected] See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.