REWIND Episode #11 with Amber Hawken I've been very fortunate to be her friend for some time. And that has been both in just two humans connecting on a level that we get each other, but also because of, you know, where we're at and the work that we do. And that's one of the major reasons I wanted to bring Amber onto the show. Because of the insight, the skills, the expertise she has in helping people get the shit together. I wanted to bring her on because, as a woman, I believe she has a beautiful and unique perspective for men, as women, of course, do. I will talk to many more women on the show. I wanted to speak to Amber to get a bit of a woman's perspective for men, but more specifically, and as you hear in this podcast, I wanted to speak to the idea of the conversation of safety.  I've done plenty of posts about this in the past that speak somewhere along the lines of: “Men, she needs to feel safe with you.”  They usually get a monumental response from women and from guys sometimes “Yes, and okay, please tell me more or make sense of this.” And also "It should go both ways."  And so, in this episode with Amber, we’ll explore the idea of safety. What that is to women, to the feminine and in with it, we go into looking at the masculine and feminine; those modes. In us, as individuals, and how that plays out in our relationships, how do we understand these aspects, modes, and energies? Amber's got some beautiful, uh, personal stories that she shares in amongst this. For guys, you might want to pass on some of this stuff to some of your female partners. Also, to any of my gay audience, there's a lot here speaking to the feminine in anyone. So it doesn't really matter who you are. I think you can get a lot from this and from Amber, including any female listeners, for sure. See below for some tools from Amber and how to access more from her. Mike’s main lessons/takeaways: This can be a HUGE topic to start exploring for men if you haven’t explored safety and the masculine/feminine. This is a nice starting point, and the perspective of women is easily the most powerful way to learn this. Tune in to the examples she gives, and if you have questions out of it - ask me: Hit me on social media @mikecampbellmc on Instagram or @Mike Campbell Man Coach on Facebook   Where to find Amber Website: http://www.amberhawken.com/ Instagram: @amber_hawken Facebook: FB.com/hawkenamber Amber Hawken Podcast Resources mentioned: Coherent breathing - this link Feel Free in 15 Minutes here