Next time you get overwhelmed by feelings of inadequacy because you think you can't compete with the women in pornography, take 10 for yourself and listen to this.    Put a post it on your mirror that reminds you to look up every time you look in. The relief you seek from a broken covenant can never be found in your reflection, only in Christ. Take heart, God is using this deep pain of comparison to draw you into a deeper level of intimacy with Him. He is inviting you to bravely open that pressure valve, to look inside yourself, locate the pieces of your broken heart and hand them over. Remember, you don’t need to try harder to fix your outside, what you need is divine intervention to heal and restore your inside. Take a listen to Oxygen Mask #1 - When you don't feel Strong Enough  Fight For Love Website