In a continuation from last week where K & S discuss the first part of "The Defining Decade"  by Meg Jay, this week dives into the second half of the book, where things get a liiiittle more heated. This half focuses on relationships, marriage, & fertility in your 20s and beyond, which can be a delicate subject when things such as privilege, gender stereotypes and financial stability come into play.  The author shares that the best time to work on your marriage is "before you have one" and encourages twentysomethings to not delay starting a family.  The hosts of Fingers Crossed definitely have a lot to say about this part of the book—and their listeners definitely have some critiques to share as well.  Come join in and let us know what you think! Follow us on Instagram @fingerscrossedpod so YOU can be a part of the podcast! @kristeevetter @sierramichellegreen Don't forget to subscribe and if you're enjoying the show leave us a 5-star rating! Keep your fingers crossed!  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/fingers-crossed8/message