A seminar focusing on the topic of codependency, both in relationships and our entire life. Many interesting areas have been covered, that also include Q&A. -> The Summoning the Self course is out now https://spartanlifecoach-com.mykajabi.com/offers/6LTjhmzZ -> This is a brand-new course (as of August 2020) dealing with issues related to CODEPENDENCY and people pleasing. (00:58) We Need Neuroplasticity to Make a Lasting Change (03:11) Marks Left by the Stressed Parents & a Master-slave Dynamic (08:04) It's Challenging for the Ego to Admit That We're Traumatized (10:42) The One Piece of Source Code That Ruins the Relationships (11:52) Fear of Abandonment and the Origins of the Fear of Negative Emotions (15:15) What Does Fawning Mean? (17:30) Everybody's an Avatar, Trauma Bonding & Intensity of the Relationship (21:39) Why is the Sex So Good? (22:39) Moving Towards the True Self (24:33) Being Aware of Our Fawning (26:42) I'll Do Me, You Do You Concept for Codependents (28:11) Is Boundried Helping for Social Workers Possible & the Reality of Social/service Work (32:03) Richard's Personal Example of Codependency & Unconscious Positive Intents (33:34) Are Addictions Related to Unresolved Trauma in a Person? (34:53) Is Codependency an Addiction, if So, Can You Be Free From It? (Conditioning vs. Addiction) (39:04) Would You Ironically Start Helping the Narcissist if You Start Playing "the Game" (40:33) How Can You Manage Your Relationship With a Narcissist? (41:58) Different Cultural Coordinates & Narcissism/Codependency in Relationships (46:56) Is There a Link Between Autism and NPD? (50:07) Are People More Mentally Ill Than They Were 50 Years Ago? (52:44) Why Can't I Condemn My Narcissistic Girlfriend? Why Do I Pull Away Instead? (55:58) Saying "The Narcissist" Instead of "My Narcissist"