In this episode, we dive into the complex process of making decisions, emphasizing the impact our current state has on the choices we make. We explore the idea that the Stage of healing from betrayal we find ourselves in - whether it be Stage three, four, or five - significantly influences our decisions, urging listeners to strive for Stage five, where decisions come from a place of clarity and strength.  We discuss real-life examples from our members at the PBT®  (Post Betrayal...

Welcome to today's episode where we dive into a nuanced and often overlooked form of betrayal: self-betrayal. This conversation talks about the complex relationship between betrayal by others and the acts of betrayal we commit against ourselves. Our exploration will provide insights into the manifestations of self-betrayal, the underlying reasons behind this behavior, and strategies for fostering self-awareness and healing.  Key Points Discussed:  The Nature of Self-Betrayal: We begin by...

In this insightful episode, Vanessa Cardenas shares her personal journey of navigating betrayal, not only in her intimate relationships but also in the workplace. As a Certified PBT Support Group Host and Certified PBT coach, Vanessa brings a wealth of knowledge, compassion, and understanding to the discussion on how betrayal can profoundly impact one's professional life, regardless of whether the betrayal occurred within or outside the work environment.  Key Points Discussed:  Vanessa's...

The episode dives into the profound effects of betrayal and shattered trust in the workplace, particularly focusing on the aftermath and symptoms experienced by individuals.  It outlines the experiences shared at the WBENC conference, highlighting the lack of support for dealing with betrayal-related trauma in corporate settings.  The conversation emphasizes the need to address Post Betrayal Syndrome® symptoms to foster healthier work environments and personal growth.    Symptoms of...

In this insightful episode, we dive deep into the complex issues of betrayal, shattered trust, and the journey towards healing. The discussion not only uncovers the painful cycle of repeat betrayals but also offers hope for anyone struggling to move past their traumas. We explore the concept of unhealed betrayals manifesting through different relationships in your life, the profound lessons to be learned from these experiences, and the importance of establishing better boundaries.  Key...

In this deeply moving episode, we explore a story that powerfully embodies the journey from betrayal to breakthrough, shedding light on the profound impacts of addiction, loss, and recovery on family dynamics, faith, and personal growth.  Guest Story:  Our guest Ken Guidroz shares an incredibly personal and heartbreaking story that may resonate with many of our listeners. His 27-year-old son, struggling with a decade-long opioid addiction, was involved in a tragic accident that led to a...

Introduction to the 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough: Dr. Debi shares the significance of navigating through the 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough as a pathway to healing and rebuilding trust.    Rebuild Program for Betrayers: Dr. Debi introduces a specialized program tailored for betrayers who have acknowledged their significant errors and are committed to changing them. This program, with certified PBT Coaches, their own program, community, etc., focuses on the betrayer’s...

In this episode, we explore the journey of overcoming betrayal and discovering personal freedom with Dr. Karin Louise. Dr. Karin shares her personal experiences of betrayal from close relationships and how these led to her professional focus on healing and transformation. Her story takes us from the shock of discovering her partner's infidelity to the deeper understanding of her own patterns and the spiritual awakening that followed. Dr. Karin's insights provide valuable lessons on navigating...

Welcome to a new episode where we dive into the fascinating world of Human Design and how it can help in the healing process from betrayal. Join us as we explore this unique modality and its potential to provide deeper insights into our struggles and strengths.  Key Points from the Episode:  Introduction to Human Design as a new modality for healing from betrayal.  The decision to incorporate Human Design into the PBT (Post Betrayal Transformation) framework. Explanation of Human Design...

In this episode, Dr. Debi dives into the fascinating outcomes of what happened when she emailed her newsletter subscribers. She asked her audience a simple question: "If I can help you, respond to this email." The responses she received were incredibly telling, categorizing her audience into 4 groups based on their reactions to betrayal and their approach to healing. Join Dr. Debi as she breaks down these groups, shares her insights, and offers guidance on moving forward.  Key Points...

In this thought-provoking episode, we dive deep into the complexities of betrayal and the possibility of change for both the betrayer and the betrayed. The discussion sheds light on common questions surrounding betrayal, its aftermath, and the path toward healing and transformation.  Key Points Discussed:  The Possibility of Change: It's explored whether a betrayer can change. The answer is yes, highlighting that change is based on the betrayer's genuine desire for transformation and not on...

In this episode, we dive into the profound topic of healing and transformation after experiencing betrayal. Our host, Dr. Debi Silber who has personally walked this challenging path, shares her story and insights on how to navigate the journey of recovery and self-discovery.  Key Points:    The Pain of Betrayal:  Betrayal can be an incredibly painful experience, leaving you feeling blindsided, devastated, and questioning everything.  The aftermath of betrayal can create a psychological...

This episode dives into a rarely discussed yet vital topic - the profound impact of the lack of physical touch on our lives. Aaron Johnson, our guest, brings his unique insights and experiences to the table, offering a deep dive into how varying aspects such as culture, upbringing, and societal norms shape our understanding and access to touch.  Key Discussion Points:  Understanding the Lack of Touch: Aaron discusses the general lack of complexity around touch in the United States,...

In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber explores the often overlooked consequences of being exceptionally capable, especially in the aftermath of betrayal. She highlights how this trait can lead to detrimental outcomes, both personally and professionally, and offers insights into how to navigate this challenging situation.    Episode Highlights:    The Capability Trap (00:00:45): Dr. Debi dives into how being highly capable can work against you, using examples from her work with individuals at...

Understanding and Overcoming Post Betrayal Syndrome™   Introduction:  This episode focuses on Post Betrayal Syndrome™, a collection of physical, mental, and emotional symptoms commonly experienced after betrayal. We explore how unhealed betrayals can impact us long-term and the importance of healing to overcome these symptoms.  Key Discussion Points:  Defining Post Betrayal Syndrome™: An explanation of Post Betrayal Syndrome™, highlighting its long-lasting effects even years after the...

In this episode, we dive into the complex and painful experience of betrayal. Drawing inspiration from Mel Robbins' podcast on the subject, we explore different perspectives on betrayal, its impact, and ways to overcome its painful consequences.  Highlights:  Understanding Betrayal: Betrayal is a shattering of trust, often by those closest to us like family, partners, or colleagues. It involves breaking spoken or unspoken rules, leading to trauma and a sense of deep betrayal.  Key Insights...

Welcome to another enlightening episode of our podcast! In this episode, we're thrilled to have Anne, a previous guest renowned for her insights, join us again. We delve into the critical topics of pornography, emotional betrayal, and the journey towards healing and safety. Whether you're grappling with these issues personally or seeking to understand them better, this discussion with Anne provides invaluable guidance. Key Discussion Points: 1.Understanding Emotional and Psychological...

The Highly Sensitive Empath and Betrayal: • Highly sensitive empaths often struggle deeply with betrayal because they can feel and anticipate the emotions of others. • Betrayal hits them hard, leading to a profound sense of pain. • Dr. Debi discusses the unique dynamics between narcissists and highly sensitive empaths, highlighting their differences in empathy levels.
 The Journey to Healing: • Despite the initial crash, highly sensitive empaths can embark on a journey of healing. •...

Betrayal is a deeply traumatic experience that can have profound effects on the body's physiological balance. It triggers the body's stress response system, and when this system is constantly activated due to betrayal, it can have detrimental effects on our overall well-being.   In this riveting episode, Dr. Debi embarks on an enlightening conversation with Dr. Jorina Elbers, the visionary Program Director of the Trauma Recovery Project at the HeartMath Institute. Together, they unravel the...

Rebuilding trust after betrayal is a challenging and complex process that requires effort and commitment from both parties involved.    Welcome to another enlightening episode of ‘From Betrayal to Breakthrough’, where we dive deep into the intricate process of rebuilding trust in relationships. In this episode, Dr. Debi guides us through the challenging journey of healing for both those who shattered trust and those grappling with its aftermath.   Dr. Debi shares profound insights and...

In a world filled with life's unpredictable twists, we often find ourselves grappling with unexpected betrayals and profound losses—soul wounds that cut deep, leaving scars that seem insurmountable. But what if, nestled within the depths of our pain, lay the blueprint for an extraordinary transformation?   In this compelling episode, Dr. Debi engages in a heartfelt conversation with Steven Sweeney, a Counseling Professional for 39 years and has an extensive background in mental health,...

The holiday season, with its festive cheer and traditions, can be a poignant reminder of past betrayals, casting shadows on what should be joyous occasions. In this episode, Dr. Debi offers some valuable advice on how to change the meaning of holiday celebrations and create a new association with this time of year.   Discover how reframing your perspective on past events can be a catalyst for creating new celebrations aligned with your healing journey. Instead of dwelling on the pain, this...

The mind-body connection is a crucial aspect of healing, and it plays a significant role in our overall well-being. Tune in to discover the remarkable connection between our thoughts, muscles, and chemical processes as we explore the power of providing support to unlock the body's innate healing abilities and release deep-rooted trauma. Dr. Debi had the pleasure of bringing back the incredible Rachelle McCloud, a Mental Health Therapist and Emotional Wellness, in this week’s episode....

Words shape our beliefs and ultimately our lives. Join Dr. Debi in this episode as we unravel the profound impact of words on our beliefs and lives. Discover how we hold the power to reshape our beliefs by consciously selecting our words and thoughts. Explore the journey towards overcoming betrayal, regaining confidence, and scripting a new life narrative.   Delve deep into the realm of personal resilience and conquering betrayal in this episode. Uncover the significance of self-belief,...