In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the complexities of handling life post-betrayal and navigating the path to divorce with financial experts Becky Wuest Creavin and Patti Janco Tupper. Both speakers share invaluable advice on dealing with the unexpected challenges that come with becoming suddenly single, particularly after a betrayal. Here's what we covered:  Understanding Betrayal and Its Consequences: Discussion on how betrayal impacts relationships and when it might lead to divorce. The importance of understanding whether reconciliation or separation is the right path, and the significance of establishing a plan if divorce seems imminent.  Financial Preparedness: Patti and Becky emphasize the crucial steps for financial preparedness, especially for women. Key actions include understanding your assets and liabilities, establishing credit, and knowing your financial advisors. They discuss the importance of creating a comprehensive financial picture before making any major decisions.  Immediate Steps Post-Divorce Announcement: How to cope when you are blindsided by divorce. Practical advice on assessing personal spending, understanding the costs of maintaining assets, and recognizing personal financial habits.  Choosing the Right Legal Help: Tips on selecting the appropriate attorney for your divorce, considering whether a more aggressive approach (a "shark") or mediation is suitable for your situation. They highlight the balance between getting fair settlements and avoiding excessive legal fees.  Post-Divorce Financial Management: The significance of revising wills, insurance policies, and beneficiary designations post-divorce. It's crucial to update these documents to reflect your new status and ensure that your financial and legal affairs are in order.  Long-Term Financial Security: Advice on consulting with financial advisors to ensure long-term viability of your financial plans. They stress the importance of understanding whether you can sustain your lifestyle post-divorce.  Success Stories: Becky and Patti share inspiring success stories of clients who navigated through the financial turmoil of divorce to achieve stability and confidence in managing their finances independently.  Final Thoughts: Encouragement to seek help and ask questions without feeling embarrassed about lacking financial knowledge. The importance of being proactive, informed, and engaged in managing your finances, especially in times of personal upheaval.  Where to Learn More: For more insights and advice from Becky West Creavin and Patti Janco Tupper, visit their LinkedIn profiles.  This episode provides essential strategies for anyone facing the daunting prospect of sudden singleness due to betrayal, ensuring they come out stronger and more financially savvy on the other side.  Guest Contact Information:  Becky Wuest Creavin: LinkedIn  Patti Janco Tupper: LinkedIn  https://www.linkedin.com/in/coripatti/  [email protected]