Warning: This episode features discussions around rape and rape fantasies. Please seek advice and support at https://rapecrisis.org.uk/ if you've been affected by any of the conversations.  We love a Dr in the house..but when it's an open house that's even better. Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is an Advanced SDRD Therapist, sex & intimacy coach and psychologist AND the woman with all the advice on Channel 4's Open House: The Great Sex Experiment. Miri wants to know all the details about what it...

Well, you would think that going to Nevada, you'd be heading straight to Las Vegas to lose or win some money and inhibitions, but there's something else that's luring people in. Legal Brothels. Miri welcomes in a real-life Madam to Smut Drop this week as she gives us an insight into what it takes to run a legal brothel, what the Courtesans get up to, how well they're treated and what one could expect on a visit! Well Yee Ha, we're intrigued.  Plus, Miri wants to know how we can rectify a...

Warning: This episode contains discussions of extreme kinks including scarification , kidnapping and scat. If you are interested in trying these kinks, please listen to the professionals and seek advice before you do.  Well, we at Smut Drop are open to all kinks and fetishes and we were delighted to welcome in Paula Dreidemie to discuss the more extreme lengths some people want to indulge their sexual fantasies. It's an eye-opening discussion, even for Miri, so approach with caution and...

We're scribbling notes quickly because we have a relationship coach and counsellor on Smut Drop this week. Roy Graff offers counselling under the Psychosynthesis modality and he talks to Miri about Radical Honesty, Non-violent Communication and Wheel of Consent and what solo polyamory really means. It's a fascinating look at how we can make relationships work for the individual.  Also, Miri looks at new dating trends: eco-dumped  to benching! What do they mean and are we all getting...

Sometimes a star just shines and Ruby Rare is just that. What a fabulous guest we have on Smut Drop this week. She's the big sister on social media that you've always wanted handing out sex advice without shame or judgement. She's an ambassador for Brooke and clearly passionate about educating people of all ages, which you will see very soon on her debut television show Sex Rated coming soon to E4. She talks to Miranda about preparing yourself for your first sexual experience and all the...

In this day and age, we're all pretty good at metaphorically tying ourselves in knots but what about literally being tied up in knots. We're opening our fetish box up again this week and have welcomed Anna Kii on to Smut Drop. She's an expert in Shibari, Japanese Rope Bondage. Miri finds out what gets people all kinked up on knots, what a bunny is & finds out what a rope jam is!  Plus Miri hears about when YOU all got kinky outdoors and does flirting count as cheating? Uh oh.... Make...

Feeling sexy and empowered.. it doesn't come naturally to everyone but this week's guest is oozing it from her very being. Judith Owen is a Welsh-American singer/Songwriter, has 1million album streams under her belt, toured the world & released 13 albums to date. And her latest album is celebrating the unapologetic females of yesteryear. So, what can we learn from the vixens who dominated from the 40s, 50s and 60s? Judith and Miri discuss how to be your true authentic selves and how that...

It's not every day that you get to speak to a legend and for Smut Drop, legends come in the form of Erika Lust. She has taken on the male dominated porn industry and has created a world of ethical, female led erotic films and they are a truly cinematic experience. For added drama, the thunder was rolling behind her and Miri's conversation! Miri does a deep dive with Erika on why she felt compelled to create these films and why it was important to make them by women..for women.  Plus, Miri...

Lane Kwederis has joined Miri on Smut Drop this week as they share a very similar life story...going from sex work to a life in comedy! She was tired of making little money and found that sex work gave her an income and that feeling of empowerment she wanted. Lane has appeared on major US hit shows like Late Night with Stephen Colbert and is currently performing at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival with her show, Sex Job. Grab your friends, get a ticket and go! Plus, Miri and Lane swap notes on...

A little ethical non-monogamy never hurt no one but for some who want to start, it might feel a bit overwhelming. That's why this week Miri is talking to swinging coach, Rosie Kay! She's helping singles and couples find their way into the wonderful world of swinging by helping them explore, discover and get involved.  Plus Miri wants to know why we're all online & searching the term 'Dead Bedroom'. It needs some explanation.... Make sure you follow an subscribe so you never miss an...

Sex can be a hot, wonderful thing... but what happens when your vulva turns into a hot, itchy & uncomfortable thing?! UTIs and yeast infections can be a very unpleasant experience and how to treat them can be very confusing. So this week on Smut Drop, we're tackling the issue head on. Lindsay Wynn, owner of Momotara Apotheca, a natural vulvovaginal care product business, speaks to Miri about how she turned her own painful experience of recurring UTIs into finding a solution that works for...

We're all for creating your own little polacule relationships - the more the merrier but do the dynamics change when new partners are added? Jealousy? Envy? Excitement? We are dissecting every inch of this new relationship dynamics with licensed somatic and relationship expert, Orit Krug. She's been married for 10 years in an open relationship and she discusses the challenges they've faced when new partners are welcomed in. Plus, Orit reveals how sharing a bed with more than one can compare...

 Sexual pleasure should be for absolutely everyone, no matter how your body works. This week we welcome in a power house and bundle of positivity, Kelly Gordon, Head of Creative at sex toy company, Hot Octopus. As a disabled person she is hoping to make sex as inclusive as possible to all. Turns out there's a toy for every eventuality...and other ways to use the ones your commonly used ones!  Plus, Miri discusses the dating rules that can transform our sex lives and why sex talk could give...

When we hear the word Tantra...we think Tantric Sex right? Surely, it's not just us? But we're about to take you on a spiritual journey with our guest the week, Aaron Kleinerman. He's a transformational Sex and Relationship coach & a tantric practioner amongst things and is spreading the word of how we can all weave tantra into our lives.  How can we find the joy in each other and ourselves? Aaron also hosts some incredible masculinity workshops - where he guides people to cultivate their...

PRIDE SPECIAL: We are delighted to welcome our final Pride month guest, Eric Marcus.  An author, Podcaster and LGBTQ+ storyteller. You may have heard his wildly popular, The Making Gay History Podcast.  Making Gay History is a nonprofit organization that brings LGBTQ+ history to life through the voices of the people who lived it...and the Making Gay History podcast mines Eric Marcus’s decades-old audio archive of rare interviews— an unbelievably unique insight into our history. Eric regales...

We are diving into some Queer History this week with the incredible Logbook Podcast host, Tash Walker.  Switchboard started in 1974 off the back off the part decriminalisation of homosexuality in 1967. The Gay Liberation Front set up Gay News...which set up a phone line (Switchboard) to deal with the ever-increasing calls from the LGBTQ+ community. Tash came across 'The Logbooks' whilst rummaging through some unopened boxes at Switchboard and discovered the 1974 hand written notes from the...

PRIDE SPECIAL: For years, Jamie Raines knew that something didn't quite align with themselves but didn't realise he was Trans. Then aged 16y, they watched a documentary about a Trans guy at the beginning of his transition...and that started Jamie's journey of self-discovery. Jamie has now gone on to become a published author of The T in LGBT: Everything you need to know about being trans and is an incredibly successful YouTube star, helping educate and support those on their own Trans...

There's a Dr in the house...a Dr of Critical Masculinity Studies. Ooo, fancy. We're welcoming Dr Chris Haywood onto Smut Drop this week and Miranda wants to know exactly why he's researching sexual freedom and protection in sex clubs. Dr Chris is a bundle of energy and fun and wait till you hear what really goes on in your local sex club (onesies and buffets apparently!).  Plus Miranda discusses proximity crushes....someone to flirt with on the way to the coffee machine!  Make sure you...

If you want something done, then do it yourself. Which is exactly what Pro- Domme, Queen Tricks, did. She worked in the financial industry for 17years before becoming the owner of a niche BDSM webcam platform domin8trix, taking control of her own career and making sure that the sex industry is a safe, fun and equal for all. She spills ALL the juicy goss behind the industry...and shares some VERY explicit client stories.  Plus, Miri scrutinises our dating profiles and looks out for our dating...

She was taking the bar exam and getting s3xy only at the same time and ultimately she swapped her future law career to become an Only Fans Star. Jazmen Jafar was proud to make her own decisions despite judgement from her family and colleagues. It's an incredibly inspiring story for all your Smut Droppers.  Plus Miri wants to know how to deal with tensions in a relationship on those big, important days. Anyone else have a Corrie-Nash tantrum?  Make sure you follow and subscribe so you never...

News flash! Orgasms do not have an expiration date. HOORAY! We CAN have lifelong pleasure & sexual satisfaction- what a treat. Mangala Holland, an Orgasm expert, actually feels that as women we come into our power as we get older. She works with clients of all ages to find their own pleasure (G Spot & Cervical orgasms anyone!?) and help them get back in tune with their body and find that sexually satisfied feeling.  Plus, Miri wonders how you deal with a salty ex-partner. What if...

Talk about a force to be reckoned with. You might know her from the phenomenal hit show Married at First Sight UK but she's got an empowering past and an even brighter future. From Glamour modelling to marrying at first sight to Sports Presenting, Amy Christophers gives us a bubbly, insightful and inspiring conversation.  Miri also thinks we should all be doing an ex-audit across our socials. No one needs to be reminded of their past mistakes! And what career pivots have you been up to? Miri...

We've called in the cavalry this episode. Please welcome Presenter, Podcaster and Comedian, James Barr.  He co-hosts the podcast, A Gay and a Non-Gay and as an openly gay man and advocate for the LGBT+ community he's the perfect person to help us try to make sense of all these feelings and non-feelings in the world of gay dating.  Plus Miri wants to know what this new trend of dating probations are? Are we all going to the slammer? And she reads your listener stories of Odd couples!  Make...

Toxic masculinity. We've all heard of it...we've all experienced it but how do you start changing it? Enter James Mattingley. He's Using movement, reflection and boxing and leading workshops to empower healthy masculinity. to help release the warrior within.  Miri needs some persuading to begin with but James lets us in to this new way of creating healthy confrontation and relationships. Let's us all get to know and love our inner masculinity.  Miri also dives into transcendental sex. Not...